Preparing for sex

My girlfriend and I have been together for a long time now. We are both virgins and we have talked about sex for months and we think that we are finally ready. I need advice about what I should get. What is the best type of condom to use? E.g. Lubracated, extra strength, ultra sensitive, etc. Also, which is the most durable brand, Lifestlye, Trojan, etc? Me and my girlfriend want to be very safe, we are getting condoms, birth control, and spermacide, is there anything else that we should get to help? I also want to know is there something else that either me or her should do before sex

ok well here is something you can do...get spermicide condoms...that way you dont have to buy 3 protections...and yah birth control os like a MUST...and also maybe use the mourning after pill the first couple times...yes I know that is A LOT of protection but it will ease her mind from any stress. before actual intercoarse finger her...that will loosen her muscles up.

Get a normal one. I dunno, Lyfestyle or Durex or Trojan. Besides that you don't really need anything. Try to relax before doing it. And don't worry if it does not work out from the first time.

Condoms for you,Birth control for her as backup..slip-ups do a happen.Like optex said don't worry if it doesn't work out the first time.Practice makes perfect.lolCommunication is key...talk each other through it,the first time may be a bit painful for her,and she will appreciate your concern...good luck

ep314, you obviously aren't edjucated...spermicide condoms are considered 2 defences because its not just a condom but also means you dont have to buy spermicide...which is a GOOD thing. and yah getting just condoms SHOULD be fine...but things happen and its not 100% and frankly I would worry and be stressed out thinking what if...so its way better to MAKE sure that the girl wont get pregnant