Pregnant? please help!(might be graphic)

Asked by fau 6 months ago, 7 answers.

Well here's my situation. My friend and I got quite intoxicated last night and one of her friends who is a guy was drinking with us. Soon, I was completely drunk and didn't know what I was doing. I ended up having sex with this guy, and he lead me to...

believe he had on a condom which I found out later he did not. He pulled out, but his ejaculation still got all over the opening of my vagina. I was upset of course when I found out he mislead me and I went to the bathroom right after sex to wipe it off.
The problem is, I am on no kind of birth control whatsoever. My period just ended four days before as well and it will take a whole month to see if I miss it. I am very embarrassed and disgusted with my behavior, and I am not usually the kind of person to just have sex with anyone, but I was intoxicated and had bad judgment.
If I am pregnant, I don't know if I could be able to go through with an abortion. Also, my best friend who was drinking with me at the time has feelings for the guy I had sex with. If we had a baby together, it would not be a good situation.
I heard about plan B. The only thing is that I don't have a car or money to get it and I don't want to have to tell my mom that I did such a disgusting thing. She would have a fit... understandably.
Can someone help me? Are there any other ways to prevent myself from getting pregnant from this?

Answered by smallsgirl07 on May 16, 2009, 05:03PM

hon your just gonna have to go get plan B, its gonna be embarrasing to tell your mom (trust me I understand some of your situation!) but its better than having to worry about being pregnant!

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I just think shamrocks are pretty = ] Answered by ringleader8 on May 16, 2009, 04:56PM
978 answers

honestly, your best bet is to just wait and see. if you cant use plan b, I dont know of any other option.

good luck,

maggie

My Mackie! Answered by sassygrl09 on May 16, 2009, 05:07PM
97 answers

get the after bill hun then you dont have to wait and you wont have to worry about it. I think its like 72 hours after that you can take it but not sure. and I agree with f8t what would you rather spend $45 dollars for the plan B or $500 for the abortion or even thousands of dollars for a baby???

all mine Answered by missenglish on May 16, 2009, 06:00PM
292 answers

morning after pill ,
sell the baby to me.
im serious

Clearing the Gene Pool Answered by bimjob on May 16, 2009, 07:00PM
3297 answers

Plan B (the morning after pill) is most effective if taken right away, but there is evidence that it might help up to 5 days later. If you are 18 or older, you can get it at any pharmacy by asking for it. (They may want to check your age.) (Guys can also get it.)
ALSO, call Planned Parenthood in your area. They may be able to help.
BUT DO NOT DELAY. The quicker, the more effective.

However, if you think talking to your Mom about Plan B is difficult, how much harder will it be to talk about a pregnancy? You may be surprised how supportive a parent can be. All parents worth the title want their kids to have wonderful lives, but we know that the real world isn't so accommodating.

Good Luck!!

Answered by shaunanamo on May 16, 2009, 11:25PM
15 answers

I'd get plan b. I'm 17 and pregnant, and there is nothing like telling your mother.
Hey, so I don't have the stomach flu, I'm pregnant My mom and I are really close, and I look back on it now and think, WOW, I could have prevented this pregnancy by getting the morning after pill, or better yet, not having sex. LOL but anyways, Really, its your decision. I'm excited to have the baby now, but it changes your life. So if you are not 100 percent sure you can take care of a baby...Morning after pill.

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on May 17, 2009, 03:40AM
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plan b is ONLY going to work if you take it within 3 days after having sex
and the longer you wait during the 3 days, the less effective it gets
if its been more than 3 days since thishappened taking it will NOT do anything to stop the pregnancy
and its very likley that you are pregnant
so youll have to consider different options like abortion, keeping it, adoption, letting a family/friend take care of it for you for a bit, ect
to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex
(any sooner and the results won’t be accurate)
in the morning with your first pee is the best time
and take it when your period is due
alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test
this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results
and if theres something you want to get, find a way to get it
like plan b or to get a blood test from the doctors
asking someone to help you isnt going to hurt
neither is catching a bus there

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