Welcome!


FunAdvice is a social question & answer site where you can make friends, share photos and meet people near you.
FunAdvice RSS for this page:
Rss_feed

Pregnant or not ?

Asked by fau 4 months ago, 15 answers.
Send me Fun Mail

Okay, me and my boyfriend have had sex a lot without protection. Last week we had sex and he busted in me. He was really scared and now worried that I might be pregnant. It's hard telling since It's only been a week. But I have been feeling alittle weird. I went to bed extremely early for me and woke up two hours later sweaty and hard to breathe and I would keep vomiting in my mouth. My stomach has gotten sharp pains up in my ribs, or now my pelvis. I haven't started my period yet, and I'm not sure if I've needed to since I'm irregular. I live with my aunt and uncle and they don't know anything about anything that we have done. My aunt is very strict, I have asked her to take me to the doctor to get on birth control again since I was when I was with my mom. My aunt keeps telling me she will take me but she hasn't. I can't talk to her about anything, so I don't know who to go to. I need to go take a test, but how would I get it without anyone knowing ?
Also, do you think I might be pregnant ?

Send this to a friend

Gir rules. Answered by mikeh on Jul 16, 2008, 12:21PM
Send me Fun Mail | 912 answers.
Advisor-small

You can a test at any drugstore, Walgreen's, or grocery store. Go pick one up, head to the bathroom, and you'll know for sure in 15 minutes. If you're not, throwing away a little box shouldn't be too difficult without anyone knowing. If you are...well, you're aunt is going to find that out soon enough anyway,

Recent - august7. Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 16, 2008, 12:29PM
Send me Fun Mail | 113 answers.

I live in an incredibly tiny town and everyone know everybody. There is only one tiny store here and I know everyone who works up there and everyone knows my family. So it would be kinda hard. What do I do ? I can't find anyone to go buy me one.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 16, 2008, 12:29PM
Send me Fun Mail | 5899 answers.

My feelings are...if you think your old enough to have sex, then you need to be RESPONSIBLE! Why are you having unprotected sex? That is just asking to get pregnant!
You wouldnt be having symptoms this early. Being sweaty, and having a hard time breathing arent even pregnancy symptoms, and vomiting wouldnt come until much later. Sounds more like flu symptoms.
I suggest if your not trying to conceive, GET ON BIRTH CONTROL, AND START USING CONDOMS! You need to wait until your next period, if its late then take a pregnancy test!

He should be scared...if your not pregnant, let this be a wake up call for you both!

Me!!!! Answered by wikawikawoo on Jul 16, 2008, 12:29PM
Send me Fun Mail | 265 answers.

Yeah, just tell your aunt your going to a friends house and on the way home get a test. You should be able to hide it in something. no one will try to investigate.

Recent - august7. Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 16, 2008, 12:32PM
Send me Fun Mail | 113 answers.

Angelfire2708 - I have asked my aunt to schedule me an appointment to get on birth control, but she keeps delaying it. And I have nobody to buy me and condoms. Since last week we haven't had sex. But if she does finally get me an appointment, what kind of birth control should I use ? Do you know what kind would be the best ?

girl Answered by yukina on Jul 16, 2008, 12:32PM
Send me Fun Mail | 52 answers.

I agree with mikeh

Having sex without protection has a higher risk at getting pregnant or an STD especially if he 'busted' inside of you. Should you worry? YES! You need to find out asap if you are pregnant so you have options in deciding what your going to do with it.

Best Wishes!

Recent - august7. Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 16, 2008, 12:38PM
Send me Fun Mail | 113 answers.

yukina - Me and my boyfriend have been talking about 'what if I am' , and 'how am I going to get the test, how are we going to get protection, and how am I going to get on birth control'. This is a huge wake-up call for us both, and we are also talking about if I AM, then what we could do with the baby while we finish school. Do you think that's a good idea? Or what else do you think I should talk to him about ?

girl Answered by yukina on Jul 16, 2008, 01:02PM
Send me Fun Mail | 52 answers.

For now on if you know you are unable to get condoms and birth control but don't want to get pregnant, do not consider having sex.
Second I think that in order to get what you need such as birth control pills, you need to tell an adult what has happened. I'm pretty sure that a responsible adult will allow you to get what you need to be sure and safe.
Third yes you do have the choice to keep the baby however it may be very difficult to get through schooling and having a good job. You maybe graduating late because you will have to stay home and take care of the baby for a while. It depends on your age too like if your a senior in high school now then it wouldn't be a huge change. Also you need to make sure you have enough money because baby's are expensive.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 16, 2008, 01:42PM
Send me Fun Mail | 5899 answers.

Why are you in charge of protection? This should have been discussed between the two of you, as to what forms of birth control will be used. Why isnt he buying the condoms? Your doctor will let you know what kind of birth control would be best.

Answered by x3figureskatee on Jul 16, 2008, 04:36PM
Send me Fun Mail | 47 answers.

take one out of the box and run. lol it sounds bad but that's the only thing I can think of. they have the day after pill or something. it kills the egg and it comes out in your next period. its kinda like abortion tho, which I dont really recommend =/ and yeahh see a doctor as soon as possible. you cant wait too long when it comes to this because it might be too late to do anything.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 16, 2008, 08:19PM
Send me Fun Mail | 5899 answers.

I think if you both are unable to get protection, then you need to stop having sex until your problem is resolved!

Recent - august7. Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 16, 2008, 09:01PM
Send me Fun Mail | 113 answers.

angelfire2708 - me and my boyfriend talked today and we decided to stop having sex until we get everything cleared up. I still need to get a test and everything. My boyfriend's sister is the only one who knows anything and he said that she would take me to the doctor's to get the shot. But I know my aunt will not let her. So now I just need to talk to my aunt and I already have awhile ago about taking me, and since then she's became extremely strict with me and him. She doesn't know we have had sex, but that we've considered it. I'm going to have my boyfriend talk to his sister again. I'm just sure, well hoping I'm not pregnant. I just would still like to take the test.

Answered by lana420 on Jul 20, 2008, 06:54AM
Send me Fun Mail

Yeah I go with angelfire you should not have sex if you cant take on the responibitly of having the chance of having a kid I am 22 almost 23 an I am like 2 months till having mine an even though I have loved evey minute of being pregant and gettin to become a mother I would take it all back

Recent - august7. Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 30, 2008, 04:33PM
Send me Fun Mail | 113 answers.

Well, I am pregnant. I am 6 weeks.

Answered by urnice on Aug 14, 2008, 05:28PM
Send me Fun Mail | 4 answers.

Its a possibilty, but your symptoms may just be angzity caused by the stress of worrying about being pregnant. Your local phramase should sell a pregnacy test but you're best seeing a doctor.

Back to top

Popular questions related to Pregnant or not ?