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What if i'm scared to tell them that i'm pregnant again?

hella tight Asked by dirtyxlilxindian over 2 years ago, 11 answers.

ok when I was 14 I was pregnant with twins. my dad kicked me out of the house and sent me 6 hours away back to my moms which was really stress full and I lost the first twin. then over spring break my boyfriend stayed at my friends house and a lot of...

stuff happend. I got way over stressed and got really sick...I lost my girl at about 6 months.
now over this summer my boyfriend came into town. and now I think I might be about 3 months pregnant again. the at home test dont work on me and the only way I can find out is to have an ultra sound. I'm scared to tell my boyfriend and everyone that im pregnant again...and im only 15. I just dont know what to do...I've been really stressed and confused.

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Sep 26, 2007, 08:09PM
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As sikashimmer would tell you, go to Planned Parenthood. After that, don't get yourself knocked up again.

If only you could be in my head... Answered by sikashimmer on Sep 26, 2007, 08:19PM
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How does the at home test not work on you?

Shortly after the fertilized egg attaches to your uterine lining, your body begins to produce the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG). Home pregnancy tests — available without a prescription at most grocery stores and drugstores — can reliably detect this hormone in your urine one week after a missed period. A more sensitive blood test to detect HCG can be done earlier in the doctor's office.

The only reason why a home test wouldn't work is if you...
* Take the test too early. Wait to take the test until your period is at least one day late.That's the earliest most home pregnancy tests can detect pregnancy. For the most accurate results, take the test one week after a missed period.

* Time the test wrong. If you're collecting urine, do the test within 15 minutes of collecting the sample. And be sure to give the test time to work — but not too much time. You may want to set a timer according to the package instructions.

* Use diluted urine. Drinking too much fluid before taking the test may cause a false-negative result. For the most accurate results, take the test first thing in the morning — when your urine is the most concentrated.

If you're getting mixed results or if you're still not satisfied then see a doctor or go to a Planned Parenthood clinic for a blood test.

To make an appointment with the Planned Parenthood center nearest you about your pregnancy options and prenatal care, call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN.

Answered by listenstotherain on Sep 26, 2007, 09:03PM

Don't go to f***ing planned parenthood. F**K THAT. Why do you think that there is adoption? [duh] Planned Parenthood will not be opening in Aurora, by the way. PRO LIFE! What the f**k did that innocent child inside of you do to deserve to die? It's not their fault. Heart starts beating after 18 days, and at 21 days, the brain becomes active. If you can't care for your child hon, go with adoption. There are alot of couples who can't have kids. But the main thing to do, PUT IT IN GOD'S HANDS. Pray about it and He'll let you know what to do. You may not like it, but it'll be worth it. I was in the same situation you are, only I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant. I couldn't be more blessed. I was going to put him up for adoption, but didn't. It's been alot of fun. It's amazing what God can create. Pray about it all before you do anything sweetie. There are programs who will help you with food for you and the baby, and shelter if need be. Research it.

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Answered by amblessed on Sep 27, 2007, 06:04AM
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You learned nothing from the first time apparently - both times were your choice - you did adult things now you must act like an adult and call a meeting - I wish you the best and hope in the future you'll realize good/bad choices, all come with consequences.

Answered by thuli on Sep 27, 2007, 06:07AM
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i would say keep the baby coz babies are preciouse and they bring joy and happyness in our lifes, think about it reall hard before you do something you wiill regret for the rest of your life.

Answered by lasexy_latina on Sep 27, 2007, 08:36AM

damm im well tell your mom cuz im preg rite i told my mom and my mom was so sad but now she is so happy cuz im having a BOY!!!im 27 weeks ..

slipknot Answered by siredgar on Sep 28, 2007, 10:23PM
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don't do addoption. u don't know what kind of family the baby will get

Answered by jbndkn on Oct 01, 2007, 01:30PM
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it is true don't give it up for addoption what you need two do is go tell your mom not your bad you now what happens if you do then tell your mom that you need to go to the docoter and tell her why will that is what my sister did with my mom and if your mom realy loves you she will be happie for you

Blue Rose Answered by luckybaby27 on Oct 03, 2007, 12:53PM
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ok listentotherain-- planned parenthood is NOT just about abortion...actually for the most part it doesnt have to do with abortion at all. It offers cheap services to teens, pregnant women,etc... who can't afford to go to a gynocologist. They have pap smears etc... and pregnancy tests along with psychological help for girls who ind out they are pregnant. They present all the options, including abortion, but do NOT focus on any of them. They simply bring you the information... so get your info straight before you talk sh*^ about an organization that helps people...

anyways-- back to the question... honey you should have thought about what you were doing after the 1st pregnancy. However, I am not here to judge you or dwell on the past since you have been through enough. I think that adoption may be a smart option for you, but make sure you go to a private adoption center where you get to pick the parents. Of course abortion is an option, but I don't know how far along you are or what your views are (i dont think I could ever get one). Personally at this point I dont think keeping the baby is good for you, but if you do make sure you go to planned parenthood for plenty of followups and stuff (especially since you mentioned the complications you had the first time)... also, when you've had the baby PLEASE make sure you get some birth control from planned parenthood-- they give free BC to girls under 18 (in highschool). Also, it is all strictly confidential, and they do not tell your parents. Message me if you need any more info/advice

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Oct 18, 2007, 03:56PM
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i know everyone goes thorugh struggles and that it is hard im going through some stuff too but you should take the test just like im going to for me not that this is about me im just saying its better to know so check it out...

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Oct 28, 2007, 07:32PM
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