Pregnant

Yesterday I found out that I am pregnant. I did the blood test and I had a positive result. The fact is that I was sure that I couldnt get pregnant on the 19 day of my menstruation cycle, and guess what it proved WRONG! U could get pregnant in the 19th...

day! I am so confused now, I dont wanna have the baby, I would like 2 get ur opinion and if u know of any pills that my help in the process, I really cant have it, I so confused!!! help!!!

what the hell do you mean you did the blood test? u dont do a blood test to see if your pregnant you do a wee test you then have blood tests when you know your pregnant

Ok calm down, where you not on the pill? if your not then you can get pregnant ON ANY DAY of your cycle, even if you have your periods. PLEASE PEOPLE NEVER FORGET THIS! USE PROTECTION, i cant stress it enough to girls. Ok now you no you are pregnant you need to work out what you want to do, you have a few options here, you can get an abortion but you must do that before 3 months into the pregnancy, the sooner the better, or you can have the baby and put he/she up for adoption, or you may decide to keep it. Its a very confusing and stressful time for a women to go thru esp if she never expected it. It all depends on what your beliefs are and if you want to go thru with things. I dont no about any pills, when you are pregnant you cant take many medications becos it may harm the baby, i suggest going back to your doctor and speaking to them about your options now.

Your options are:

A. have an abortion - the sooner the better. After three months most places won't do it.
B. go through with the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption.
C. go through the pregnancy and keep the baby and raise it.

That I know of there are no pills that will help you out of this situation. However, I'd recommend getting on birth control after you have the child or abort it, so that you have less chance to go through this again. Girls have just as much responsibility to provide protection against getting pregnant as guys do. You have to be responsible for yourself.

The first thing you need to realize is that you're not alone in this- you can tell a friend or mom or a family member or talk to your doctor about this. They will be able to help you sort through all that you are feeling, but you do have a decision to make. There are no pills at this point that can get rid of the baby, you would have to have an abortion. An abortion costs a good sum of money, and is a surgical procedure so you'd have to go to a clinic and have a few appointments before being able to get it done. You could have the baby and then give it up for adoption, or raise the baby, but it sounds like that is not what you want. You need to tell someone, go to a Planned Parenthood clinic or your doctor (you can look up Planned Parenthood clinics online, look in google and you'll find it). Talking to people in either of these two places will give you the information you need to make the best choice for you. Please learn from this experience. (use protection!) Good luck.

I'd like to add that the only thing taking pills will do is screw up the development of the baby, and IF you take a bunch of medication and then decide to keep the baby you may have done a LOT of harm to your unborn child, resulting in all kinds of problems after giving birth.

I'm pro choice, but think of things this way... you don't want a baby, and 100's of people every day CANT have babies and WANT one. Just think about that.

Also you can get an abortion after 12 weeks, but it's more painful, it may cost more and the further along you are the worse it is. If you pass a certain point AND the clinic will do the abortion then it will be a partial birth abortion. This involves inducing you into labor, partially delivering the baby and inserting a pair of siccsors into the back of the babys head, ramming them into the brain.

There are a lot of abortion choices early on, I suggest you talk to a family member and see what suggestions or advice they can give you

take it easy it's not the end of the world.

1- you have to see a doctor and be sure that you are pregnant.

2- i don't know what's your situation if you are married or single but in both cases your partner should know about the pregnancy.

3- If you are single, you have to inform your closest person in the family to support you.

4- Forget about abortion, what's inside you is already a breath and it's not your right anymore to put end to his life.

5- Either you take the responsibility and raise him or give him to adoption, there's many families that dream to have a baby.

I have a friend that she's married for 10 years, she went to many doctors and made treatments and operations only to have one child and didn't work.
So think that what you want to loose is a dream for oyhers so make one couple happy or yourself.

did you have your baby yet?

hey mama 1) calm down i understand ur scared and u have a reason to be but plz undrstand that a baby is a gift from God and u shouldnt take its life away. 2) do ur parents no? wat about the father. 3) if u no that u just cant handle a baby right now try a open adoption if u want 2 be apart of the babys life but plz dont have an aboption.
im here for you
the 14 year old mother

this is wat i found out i didnt want a baby cuz i wanted 2 finish school and im basically wrong but da bad thing about it was that i didnt believe in abortions if i would've got one it would of been for my boyfriend but then i realize if i can open my legs i can take da consequences. da bad thing about it was i got pregnant cuz da condom pop and i wasnt on da pill