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Would becoming pregnant help me?

me! Asked by mokababy14 10 months ago, 5 answers.

So im a 16 year old female and my mom hates me and im not close 2 my dad and I just met him this year and I moved in with him not 2 long ago. Me and him don't like eachother at all. My mom always kicks me out of her house and now I live with my step mom...

by ourselfs. I want out of all this crap. I want 2 move out with my 20 year old Fiance but I don't know how to. Also I want to become pregnant and I am not sure if I should. Would becoming pregnant help me be able 2 move in with him and get divorced from my parents? Someone please help.

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Jan 17, 2009, 12:57PM
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Becoming pregnant is just going to make your life worse, nobody should be encouraging a 16-year-old to become pregnant. You should be focusing on your education and career at that age. There is no way you'd be able to afford a baby; sometimes buying diapers/formula everyday, hospital bills, etc.

That's pretty sad that you're willing to have a child at 16 to try and solve the problems in your life, seriously, think about what you're doing.

Answered by fatty_91 on Jan 17, 2009, 01:13PM
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well...
if you want to have a baby then that would be up to you.
but your still so young and have a future ahead of you, maybe you should think about putting it off for a while.
but as much as I want to give you this advice I will:
- now you are 16 you are able to make your own life changes... e.I. - moving out they could stop you but ultimately if your safe and not at any danger if the police were to find you and want to take you home and you said no there would be nothing they could do.

also about the baby, they take much more love than they will give, as well as a lot of time and care.
have your life first before making one.

take care
and I hope this helped!
xxx

the new hero of time XD Answered by gurugl012 on Jan 17, 2009, 01:17PM
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I think 16 years old is too young to have a baby , you can get papers and get emancepated ( sorry if I spelled that wrong ) so you wouldn't have to live with your family , but you have to have a job and I think a house to prove you can actually live on your own if you are to get emancaptated good luck !

Milan Answered by ifeelcrazy123 on Jan 17, 2009, 02:25PM
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ummm. no it will just mess up your life even more and the poor baby will be stuck in the middle. Stick it out, not that long to wait anymore.

Answered by philly123 on Jan 17, 2009, 04:35PM
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no a child is not a resolution to the problem you cant just add a child into the equation and think everything will fix itself. you will be bringing a child into an unstable environment much like the one you feel you are in. seriously think about this you are so young with your whole life ahead of you and having a child will make everything worse trust me.

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