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well see I'm almost sure I know the reason she wants to abort... she is a crack head ( this is the truth I'm not just being mean) and another child means another mouth to feed... and another mouth to feed means less crack... but that brings me to another issue... what if ssahe does drugs WHILE she is pregnant for my child? is there anything that can be done about this other than simply asking her to hold off for another 7 months? this is SO confusing... I mean I really wasnt expecting to have a child until I was atleast 25... maybe I'm just freaking out about thsi whole thing? btw osoroshii thanks for the advice
you sound like you would be a good father, but I think you are getting too attached to this baby. the baby will most likely grow up with mental health problems because more than likely the mother WILL do drugs while she's pregnant and probably already has. I'm not really into abortion, but I don't think this situation feels healthy at all. I suggest she abort. plus if the baby is born say...with down syndrome due to the drugs...do you want to raise that baby? it would be 10000x harder and would your grandmother approve? not that you have to live up to her standards. just checking.
-maddie
I think you should get your sh*t 2gether and think bout your even going to raise a child. like food money clothes education healthcare...etc and tlk to your chick bout it and your grandma she might just help u
dont get me wrong people... I'm moving out of my grandmothers place first tonight... I have a place to stay and a damn good paying job waiting for me... I was just stuck living with my granmother until I turned 18... and that happened today lol... but erm... yeah... I really dont think I would WANT to raise a child with downs... but either way it would be my child... but I dont know maybe abortion would be for the best... I'll ha ve to talk to her ( wich by the is SUPER awkward considering I can't even remember this girls name... I just remember sleeping with her and waking up the next morning thinking holy crap what did I do?)
you sound like you would be a good father, but I think you are getting too attached to this baby. the baby will most likely grow up with mental health problems because more than likely the mother WILL do drugs while she's pregnant and probably already has. I'm not really into abortion, but I don't think this situation feels healthy at all. I suggest she abort. plus if the baby is born say...with down syndrome due to the drugs...do you want to raise that baby? it would be 10000x harder and would your grandmother approve? not that you have to live up to her standards. just checking.
-maddie
I'm reposting mine because you never answered my questions. :] hahaha
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Ok so I just turned 18. I have absolutly nothing going for me ( I live with my grandmother) and well I just found out that I got this girl pregnant... well... she thinks it's mine anyways... she is 27 and already has 2 kids she said she is considering...
abortion and I'm all for abortion and whatnot but... if the kids mine... I dont want it to not be born... either way I really need to get my sh*t together and I started working on that the second I hung up the phone with this chick... but I was wondering... what would you do in my situation... I would rather raise the child on my own than have the kid not get born at all... any ways... what would you do in my situation?