Pregnant?

So I got my period and I wasn't pregnant but after not even after a week after my period we had sex agein and he c*m in me 2 times and I'm still not on birth control do you think ill get pregnant this time? I plan on getting pregnant and mancipating myself and moving in with him how many more times do I have to try to get pregnant?

I really dont know

Most people do it the other way around: they get an education then a good job, they build a strong relationship, they move out of their parents house and are independent BEFORE getting pregnant. Your plan seems a bit backwards. Don't you think you should 'emancipate' yourself first and then have a baby? Your profile says your 13 years old. I would say that's a bit young to have a family, hold a stable job and build a healthy relationship all by yourself.

I think you should talk about this to a counselor or therapist so they can help you make the right decisions. You should also talk about this with a doctor because having a child at your age could be dangerous and you might have special needs if you do get pregnant. The doctor can also give you advice on how to get pregnant. Last but not least, you should talk about this to your boyfriend and parents.

Also, I recommend you use birth control until you have a more elaborate plan on how you are going to pay for and raise the child, not to mention yourself.

Im 15

fix your profile then.
your still too young though.
If you are pregnant,
I hope you live through giving birth.
A lot of young mothers die
a slow painful death.
good luck.

Even if you are 15, my advice still stands. Try figuring out a good plan first to make this easier on yourself, your partner, your parents and mostly your future baby. If everyone is willing to help you out (this includes your boyfriend and parents) and you've got a solid plan on how to support yourself and raise the child, then you know you'll be a good Mom.

Dear heathermerie,
It's very heart breaking that you are trying to use a pregnancy so that you can move out. You really don't have the right to bring a child in this world for this type of reason. What kind of role model will you be for a child? Perhaps you don't know that regardless if you move out or not your parents will be required to be responsible for this baby until you are 18. You will burden them with responsibilities. You may not be entitled to social assistance unless you promise to go to school full time. If they see you are unable to provide care for your child during this time...you will need to be prepared for Children's services to take your child. This is perhaps the side of things that no one wants to talk about since they are too concerned about getting away and out of the house. You cannot use a child this way without consequences.
Sue...good luck

I know I can take care of a baby and love it