Pregnancy questions

im currently afraid to have a baby. like terrified. I dont do well with pain.

anytime you watch a movie, they have a baby, its hard but they pull thru it. they dont show the "after birth" or the check ups afterwards. and its all scaring me.

could someone fill mein on everything that happens and what everything feels like... and could possibly relate labour pains to anything else? I know its hard to compare it to somthing else but I really would like to know before hand.

please help me. what are postnatal check ups like? what do they do?

please help me!!!

shes 19 and a half and her boyfriend wants kids and she doees too... but she doesnt do well with pain and is shy and doesnt like people looking at "her" but... she doesnt have an account... so she did it on mine and I made it annonymous because... well I dont want it to seem like im curious about pregnancy. understandable? I hope. I just had to clear all this up