Why doesn't he want to pull out?

My fiance and I are currently not together, but we are still engaging in sex... He's saying that he wants to take things slow but he also insists on not pulling out when we have unprotectewd sex... What would the reason be for this?

It feels better

uh, yeah it's because it feels better for him. . . .just let him know he has to wear a condom if he's not going to pull out, otherwise he needs to pull out.

So many problems mixed into one.
Okay... hes your fiance but your not with him, yet your having sex with him? Wow... thats just messed up, do you not realize what you are doing? You should both be more responsible,
1) don't have sex till you are together
2) get on birth control and ALWAYS use condoms.
If he says no, then don't have sex with him... plain and simple.

Well I'm pretty sure she's still having sex with him because she wants a relief as well but they are separated for the time being and don't want to cheat on each other while separated. Thing is that you should just get on birth control.

As one of my guy friends put it, pulling out is like taking candy away from a baby, but unprotected sex is stupid, and very irresponsible if you arent trying to get pregnant. Obviously you didnt listen to my post to your last question. No matter how you look at it...he is only using you for sex, because someone that TRULY loved you in the right way, would NEVER have sex without being commited to you!

You cant take things slow when you've been up and down that same old bumpy road numerous times for 5 years. You know that since you two arent a couple anymore, your ex is free to have sex with as many people as he desires — and who knows if that sex was safe? When monogamy disappears, so does the assurance of safe sex. Thus, even if your ex promises you that he has been celibate since the breakup, you still need to take the same precautions as you would with a perfect stranger.