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Abortion or not?

Yea that's me... Asked by totallybiatchy 3 months ago, 11 answers.

I'm 14 Pregnant. The 'father' doesn't want it his telling me to kill it anyway I can, but I don't want to hurt myself. I don't know if I want it, I'm against abortion, my parents will hate me and kick me out and the 'father' will never talk to me again if I keep it.

What should I do. HELP.

I'm a month along now.

HELP ASAP

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dog Answered by amblessed on Apr 18, 2008, 08:46PM
| 5965 answers.

What a stand-up guy: 'End this baby's life over our mistake or I will never speak to you again' - if you'd like some information, Funmail me...Take care !!

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Answered by swimmer4girl on Apr 18, 2008, 08:50PM
| 5 answers.

talk to your parents...they will help you make a good decision. and you dont have to keep it. you could give it to a good family if you do decide to go through with the pregnancy.

me in sun Answered by maxypoo on Apr 18, 2008, 09:00PM
| 359 answers.

give it away for adoption if you want it. Just do whats right for the baby. dont kill it or hurt yourself.

love her Answered by ashleys14 on Apr 18, 2008, 09:02PM
| 111 answers.

go to your parent because you don't know what they might act about it. funmail me after you ask your parent

me being bored at 3 am Answered by jaes on Apr 18, 2008, 09:18PM
| 797 answers.

do not get a mexican abortion, just adopt it out

Answered by watsup on Apr 18, 2008, 09:20PM
| 17 answers.

do what they say it all sounds like a good way to handle it

and me in black and white. Answered by sillygirl006 on Apr 18, 2008, 10:34PM
| 362 answers.

keep the baby. (well, at least don't abort it). cut this guy out of your life. any guy that would give you an ultimatum like that is dirt.

Answered by answwwerman on Apr 19, 2008, 11:12AM
| 58 answers.

Ask Jesus to help you. then their are many organizations that will help you have this baby and adopt it out. Yo uare oyung to have ababy. But this is why we teach all we do about abstinance and monogamy.

You were too young to be having sex.

How old is this boy?

He will be leglly responsible for child support for twenty years. The bes thing is to love and appreciate your parents and stop hating them if you do. You are going to need toput off childness for a wile and be an adult. Do you understand. Still God loves you and he wants to help you get this straightened out. Do you belive me?

Even if you do not it is still true.

Jesus help us and show us waht to do.

The Catholic Chirch or the right to life people will help you deal with the babya and help you to have it and get it adopted if that is what should be done. Maybe your parents will be wiling to raise their grand daughter as their own child.

Pray for the BIy for god to help him and to save him . YOu ask Jeus to save you and to help you. Ask out loud for HIs grace and ask for it many many times repeatedly. YOu will need grace to get through this. ANd when we ask God for grace he gives it. Grace is a spitirual substance that can help us deal with situatinos that are not pleasant. and it is God giveing his favor where it does not deserve to be given. THis is the greatness of GOd.

Dear Jeuss Save me. Amen. Teach me what I need to know and help me. Amen.

email us and we will try to send you more info.

We love you adn we care for you and we want to see you get throughthis and live the rest of your life in a better way. Do you beleive it is true that we care foroyu. We hope so.

and me in black and white. Answered by sillygirl006 on Apr 20, 2008, 01:52AM
| 362 answers.

what the heck?!?

Not nice to laugh at other's short comings Answered by ethmer on Apr 24, 2008, 07:19AM
| 1298 answers.

 
First, I'd dump the 'father'. He isn't worth keeping.

In the long run you are going to have to tell your folks, so the sooner the better. They can help you in making your decisions.

You said you don't want an abortion, so you must end up doing what is best for the baby. Depending on how your folks react to the news and your own prospects for being able to raise the baby satisfactorily, you may have to seriously consider putting it up for adoption. That may be hard for you, but, because of your age and circumstances, it may be what's best for the baby.

 
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Good Luck!

 

Answered by tgcrews on May 08, 2008, 03:53PM
| 17 answers.

omg dont do that, I cant get pregnant and we want a baby so bad
would you ever think about the whole open adoption thing?
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