Porn, sex toys !!

My boyfriend loves his pornos, dvd, mags and we have fought over them
before so he now hides them I do snoop through his stuff which I shouldnt
but I do, and I found a few things that he has bought from a sex shop,
little toys, and more dvds, he only has 3 dvds, but a fair few full on
porn mags, and it bothers me a lot.

I mean he doesnt tell me that he buys these little toys, he hides them for
me. I feel annoyed that he has pornos we have never watched them together
and he says that he bought them for us to watch and that he has never
watched them (this is before he bought the new ones) I havent confronted
him about the toys, or new dvds, cause then he will know I went through
his stuff.

But what can I do or say to him that would make him take me with him to
the shops and buy this kinda sh*t im just as kinky as him...

I've told him that it bothers me everything. help please..........

well what I would do is get drunk so I wouldnt feel embarressed or self conshuss then say somthin like you no them things you've got want to give them a go with a smile or you could go on the computer and delibrately get caught looking at annsummers web site looking at toys and sexy clothes and just say somthin like oooooooo thats nice do you think and then he'll realise you're as kinky as him. if it bothers you that hes watching them atall then you should try and join in because you will never stop a man watchin porn or mags.

Hey thanks darl.... I will try that !!!

I had a problem with my girl and being able to talk openly in the bed room as well. sorry my spelling is bad. she would get in really kinky moods but was really shy, I was her 1st real boyfriend so that made it all the harder as well. what really sloved it was getting drunk naked some lube and a simple rule of no makeing fun of some 1s fantacy. she wanted to put her toy in me wheel giving head I want to play sex games, (rip off close chase down in the house russle then hard fun sex. after we got over not worrying about herting ones feeling things went very well. also if one person get to do what ever so does the other. makes thing 50/50. get a bottle say you dont want to be hard core kink 24/7 but there are time when you drink you would love to go hard core. ;-) good luck and hope you both have lots of trust and do not talk to friends about the bed room it will hert some one if you do