How can I get it to stop bothering me when he watches p*rn?

Ok so my boyfriend watches p*rn even though I have told him many times that I dont like him to, I dont know why I just get a bad feeling when I know he is and I cant control it. to me I dont understand why its so important, me and him have sex, I just in a way think of it as cheating, I dont like him looking at other girls. I use to be really insecure about my body I hated it but my boyfriend loves it, im skinny and have small boobs, I use to think maybe he watched it because he was just saying he liked my body but liked to look at big boobs too or something, but I realize he loves me so it shouldnt matter, its just an internet site, but it still bothers me soo much. we actually got into a little fight about it today and he told me to stop being so insecure and to learn to like sex and self pleasure. I think he said this because I dont watch p*rn and I dont mast*rbate, I dont find it pleasuring when I do it myself, I just cant get into it so I just perfer not to do it. basically what im asking is how do I get over this, how can I get it to stop bothering me so much, and how can I enjoy mat*rbating?

You shouldn't feel like you need to enjoy something because your boyfriend said you should. Not everyone watches po*n or masturbates. On average, it's more common for boys than for girls to do either. Girls tend to have a lower sex drive than boys.

Frankly, your boyfriend sounds a jerk. He seems to be more interested in sex than in having you as a girlfriend. You already told him you don't like his watching po*n and he doesn't even try to hide it from you. I say you leave him and find someone who's worth your time. He doesn't sound like a good boyfriend material.

I completely disagree with the previous poster. I think you're the one with the problem, not him. You said he loves your body, well great! Just because he looks at p*rn doesn't mean he cares for you any less, it's just something some people like, male and female.

For example, I am female, and I watch p*rn. However, it's usually just for kicks, and when I start actually fantasizing, it's about my boyfriend. When I watch p*rn, it's not because my boyfriend isn't good enough or because I want to imagine sleeping with someone else.
On the other side, my boyfriend watches p*rn, too, and it's the same deal with him. He uses it just as an odd thing he likes, but then usually thinks about me doing things to him to actually get hot.

In short, p*rn is harmless, and unless it's really interfering with your relationship, just don't let it bother you. Now, if you come over and he'd rather watch p*rn than do something with you, that's a problem, but it doesn't seem like that's the case.