Popping the cherry

I lost my virginity to this guy but I didnt Bleed, And when he moved away I ended up having sex with another guy later and did bleed. It was totally embarassing because I told him I wasnt a virgin but ended up bleeding. Does this Mean that I didnt lose my virginity the first time or do you bleed the first couple times?

You were no longer a virgin after the first time. A guys anatomy can make a difference, or how hard he was thrusting, on why you bled the 2nd time, and not the first!

once your penitrated weather you bleed or not you are no longer a virgin, size and angle and shape and width has everything to do with bleeding,and the thickness of your hymen may be thick,first guy may have softened it up and then the next guy popped it you never know,its nothing to be embarrassed about it happens to all,as fact the guy probably was like yea yea im tha man I popped that lol,jsut be careful about sex ok,its a very special thing that should be shared with a special person