Popping the cherry...

im 14 and becoming more sexually active in my relation ships now. I want to have sex but just havent found the right girl. even though I want to I dont think that im ready yet I want to do it right the first time, you know?... what im asking is what is...

popping the cherry and how exacty do you do it? I hear a lot of people on this site talking about popping their g/f#039;s cherry but dont know what it means can sombody explain what it means, how to do it, and will it hurt either me or my partner in either way.

MAN you guys are undereducated. You shouldnt say dont pop a cherry untill you know what poping a cherry is becuase if no one ever tells you YOULLS NEVER KNOW.

popping a cherry is when a virginal girl has sex for the first time, her hymen ( outer skin around the vaginal opening) is literally torn open.
There isnt a wall or a cherry per say, its just, the skin is really tight still and having sex for the first time tares this skin.

By the way, having sex is probably one of the least common ways a girls cherry is popped, it happens with the use of tampons, bicycle seats, etc.

GO GET YOUR SEXUAL EDUCATION ON !!!

That carnt be right .

I had my cherry pooped by being fingerd

:S .

And I know it was my cherry
x

look man I lost my virginity when I was 16 and I regret it to this day
it takes a very large emotional toll on you and during it feels great...but afterword I felt ashamed
save it for later man
you'll regret it if you don't

look man I lost my virginity when I was 16 and I regret it to this day
it takes a very large emotional toll on you and during it feels great...but afterword I felt ashamed
save it for later man
you'll regret it if you don't

All the children need to stop giving advice because they have no idea what they are talking about. Read what secks oner wrote. But just wait. I know that is more than likely not what you want to here but don't take a risk of pregnancy or an STD which at 14 you don't want or need! And don't hit up these nasty girls who are giving you there numbers. They are the ones you will catch the nasty stuff from... lol. True love waits! I did for my husband and he did for me! It was great and it was because we loved each other and I felt safe because there was no chance of catching anything from him! So think about it before you do it and if you decide to then use PROTECTION!!!

well,I dont understand the cherry thing either but,wait for tha right girl,not a lil ho that'll do anything wit anyone.

and I am a virgin.I know.im a gorgeous girl,but then again im smart.im popular at school,and im 14.but sex iz out of my leauge.I got no time for that.I focus on family,friends,and my schoolwork,that all I need to worry about.I hate when guys walkin down the street thinkin im 18 tryna hit that,stereotype me into the hoes catigory.they think I've dun it already and want more from any random guy like britney spears.well it bothers me so wait till ya older.

it will hurt your partner but not you... sex normally hurts the girl the first time sometimes it hurts the first 2 or 3 times.. at 14 you really aren't ready to have sex... you're still to young... im only 16 and is till havent had sex... my mom is a baby nurse and she sees girls 12 and up go in there and have babies.. you're nto ready for the emotional part of sex. two of my best friends had sex and both of them regret it and one of them is worried right now that she may be pregnant.. but if you DO have sex USE A CONDOM... dotn rush in to having sex and dont make a girl rush either.. becaue y'all will both regret it... make sure that you love her first... becaue if you dont love her and you get her pregnant then you have to chose between staying with her and losing you life or breaking her heart and making her give up everything

ok so popping the cherry is when a girl is a virgin, they have a seal and their seal is broken the first time she has sex. when the seal (the cherry) is popped, blood comes out of a girl. it does hurt the girl. and you cant help what happens to the girl the first time she has sex, because her seal hasnt been broken yet. but it will hurt her... but thats what popping the cherry means..

DUDE I AM 16 AND POPPING THE CHERRY FEEL AWSOME THE GIRLS VAGINA IS TIGHT AND IT FEELS SO GOOD! IT DOSENT MATTER THE SIZE OF YOUR DICK IT JUST MATTERS IF SHE IS A VIRGIN IF SHE IS IT WILL HURT BUT IF SHE ISNT SHE WILL WANT IT MORE AND MORE AND SO WILL YOU! SEXMASTER15021

first of all... I love how old this topic is. the user posted this 3 years ago... yet everyone is still posting... interesting. well guys I just want to say, I recently lost my virginity, im 16 and let me tell you... I do not regret any of it. you just gotta find the right girl. I've been dating this girl for a little bit more than a year and we felt we were ready to do it... so we did... and it was AWESOME...

you are all sick, There are millions of other people out there better looking and all...why settle for your cousins? That's like dating your brother/sister, it's wrong, and there is nothing romantic about that. It's ok to think they're attractive but it's crazy/dumb/stupid to think you're in love, YOU'RE IN LUST...

sex at 14? thats just wrong

I think its funny how this post is like 3 years old.(:

I don't think people should be on here saying 14 is too young.,people just have diferent morals.

to some people it is to young,to some it isn't.

but,if you do have sex (at any age) make sure you use protection.

popping a girls cherry could happen at any time when the thin layer is ripped.
it could happen even when your not a virgin.

the amount of blood varies,
if the blood pressure is higher,
more blood will flow.
,and so on. and the pain is a thing that varies,depending on the girl.

-jana.(:

Friction has nothing to do with popping the cherry at 16 having sex many times? What the heck? 14 and considering sex? What's wrong with the world's children? First of all popping the cherry is a term used to describe the male penis tearing the female hymen (a small piece of skin that is in front of the cervix). MOST of the time the hymen is broken when a female loses her virginity but there are times during sports that the hymen can be broken just by other outside forces like racking yourself on a bike or something. If you don't know what Popping the cherry means you shouldn't have sex in the first place. I think you two young ones should stick to masterbation for a while.

Okay first of, you don't need to have sex to pop your cherry. The hymen is very fragile and can be ripped by simply falling off a bike.

Second, if he is 14 and thinks he is ready for sex, it's his choice. I lost my virginity when I was 14, it didn't dramatically change my life. Nothing has changed between now and when I was a virgin. It's not as big of a deal as some of you make it seem.

14 is not bad when you think about it
a and 11 year old with a 17 year old is worse

dear whoever , I think popping the girl's cherry is a very rude and discriminating thing to say.I do nottt
think your ready for sex yet personally. Your only 14 and your to young to have had enough time to know whether a girl is right for you. Try changing your question to 'Is sex before marriage the correct thing to do?'

popping the cherry: taking her virginity
well im 15 now and I lost mine at 14 obviously im a girl. it hurt so badly, I didnt even get it in on the first few tries the pain is ridiculous. when I finally did get it in I began to bleed. in the end I got use to it after a while and it was worth it.

wow im going to be 14 in a couple of days I've had sex just make sure its ok with her it kinda scared me at first and thers nothing wrong with sex at your age just use protection