Popping her cherry

I heard that when you pop a girl's cherry you are supposed to be very gentle with them during sex. I have also heard that it hurts a lot and others say it doesnt hurt at all. Can someone please help me? I would never want to hurt my girlfriend especially doing something like this

Yeah, try sticking a pencil through a piece of cooked macaroni... The first time she needs to be extremely turned on. Go very slow. Let her dictate your moves (ie. when to penetrate and to speed up or not) Use lots of lubricant. Do not pressure her to do anything she isn't ready for because it will hurt, and it will hurt A LOT more if she isn't ready.

um I never did but I suggest you strart off slow lol.

Ell: When I lost my virginity it hurt like a mofo, but I'm a pretty small girl so I don't know. It depends on how much you all have been fooling around. It'll be easier for her if you've fingered her (start with one after a while two). Get in a hell of a lot of foreplay so she won't be so nervous and constricted and take everything as slow as you possibly can. It may make her nervous if you bring out lube, it would have me, but you can give her cunninglus before and she'll be fine. Go really slow unless she tells you otherwise. ask her how she's doing, but not so often that it's annoying or if she's obviously getting off.

Ell: When I lost my virginity it hurt like a mofo, but I'm a pretty small girl so I don't know. It depends on how much you all have been fooling around. It'll be easier for her if you've fingered her (start with one after a while two). Get in a hell of a lot of foreplay so she won't be so nervous and constricted and take everything as slow as you possibly can. It may make her nervous if you bring out lube, it would have me, but you can give her cunninglus before and she'll be fine. Go really slow unless she tells you otherwise. ask her how she's doing, but not so often that it's annoying or if she's obviously getting off.

your supposed to be slow-ish, but very gentle.. how about reading that sex scene in the "notebook"? girls get turned on far more when you barely touch each other... of course rough is just as good though.. err