Popping her cherry

okay well the other night I was over her house the other night and well I was fingering her and I think I popped her cherry but im not sure cause when she said it hurt I to0ok my finger right out..but it kept hurting anyways what did I do? did I pop her cherry?

The 'cherry' refers to her hymen. The hymen is a layer of tissue that partially conceals the vaginal orifice of some girls and women.

The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates a girl's virginal state. No one can determine by physical examination alone whether a woman or teen has engaged in vaginal intercourse. Only about 50% of teens and women experience bleeding the first time they have intercourse, so blood stained bed sheets are not a reliable indicator of prior virginity. The hymen of some women tear on more than one occasion. There are even hymen that are elastic enough to permit a pen*s to enter without tearing, or tear only partially. This is usually true only if the dilation first occurs very gradually with fingers or other objects over an extended period of time. Virginity is a spiritual attribute, not a physical one. ( www.the-clitoris.com... )

You may have torn or scratched her hymen. Make sure your nails are not sharp, as that can cause the pain. She also has to be well lubricated. Sticking anything into the vagina when it is dry usually hurts.

The other night my boyfriend and I were fooling around and when we got finished we noticed blood on the sheets my underwear was still on and the only thing we did was dry hump and he fingered me but we fear the underwear moved and he penitrated me with his pen*s. I felt no pain during or after it happend so how do I know if we had sex or not?

I was trying to put my pen*s in but it wouldn't fit. Now I didn't want to force it because she was hurting. What am I supposed to do if I won't fit.

rape her

'I was trying to put my pen*s in but it wouldn't fit. Now I didn't want to force it because she was hurting. What am I supposed to do if I won't fit.'

I'd recommend not having sex with infants. Their vaginas tend not to be large enough to accommodate adolescent penises.

try fingering her a few times :p
first start with one, then gradually 2 fingers will get the job done.