Popping a girls "cherry"

Asked by janessaxlynn 4 months ago, 4 answers.

I'm a virgin, but my boyfriend isn't.
He has had quite a bit of experience and I have none..
I do masturbate, and I do watch pornography so I'm not completely uneducated.

My questions/concerns are..
I'm embarassed/scared to have sex because I don't...

want to bleed on my boyfriends dick when he pops my cherry.
Does it always bleed?
I heard it hurt..
I'm afraid of complaining or even crying..
How bad is the pain?

Can someone help me,please?

:) Answered by christinecranford on Jun 28, 2009, 01:23PM
10 answers

kay well, its not always that you bleed, and it does hurt alittle bit at first, but just tell him to go slow, and you should be fine.

Cemetery Answered by christinversion on Jun 28, 2009, 01:40PM
860 answers

Eh, im sure it's happend to him before. ; ]

flower Answered by zorbot on Jun 28, 2009, 02:02PM
1536 answers
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The best way to feel comfortable about all this is to to talk about it with your boyfriend. You're ready to loose your virginity to him so surely he is trustworthy enough to share your fears and concerns with him. Once you've talked about it, it will be much more enjoyable and you'll be able to relax better which will help reduce any pain.
Now to answer all your questions:
Not all girls bleed when they have sex for the first time but most do. If your boyfriend knows you are a virgin then he will most likely expect to see blood and to get blood on his penis. It's no big deal.
The pain varies from girl to girl but it isn't deathly. It helps if you are relaxed and well lubricated. It will most likely hurt less then you think. It helps if you take it slowly. If you do need him to stop or if you feel like crying, don't be embarrassed. This is a special moment for both of you so don't be afraid by the way you react. It's normal to be overcome by emotion or for it to hurt a little. If he is a good boyfriend, he will be gentle and understanding.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 28, 2009, 05:49PM
7802 answers

** I do watch pornography so I'm not completely uneducated**Its NOT the act that teens are UNeducated about, its about contraceptives, physical, emotional consequences, and 14 yr olds arent equipped to handle adult situations...even though they THINK they can.

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