How can I stop this lonely feeling?

Is this a problem? I know people have told me to slow down and take it slow. I'm still young I have time to look for a mate for life but what about right now? Not a mate for life but I cant seem to find a boyfriend and its weird because I mean I don't want to like do stuff with a guy and then he goes of and does something with another chick that's stupid kinda and I would probably make me jealous.

But what should I do? I need advice on what to do about finding a boyfriend. How do I make myself feel better about it and I mean advice on how to get another one that's worth it.

Can I have some suggestions on how to make myself better looking or wait should I leave that along. What should I do I have that alone feeling the not wanted feeling

I'm sad. Can someone help me??

I luv you

Dear kirsten,
As we all ready your questions we wonder why you feel the need to be with a boy??? Is it because you don't think you are complete without one? Do you hang with older people who all have boyfriends? Are you looking for someone to go places with because you don't want to do things alone? It seems you are looking for a way to help with your self-esteem. I would suggest to see the school counsellor and perhaps they can help. You might want to seek out friends more your age and enjoy being a kid. There isn't anything you can do to make yourself older...you are the age you are and unless you learn to be happy with who you are now you will always be struggling to be happy later on. So take a good look in the mirror and tell yourself I am just fine with this age, I can be alone and be happy, I don't need a boy to complete me. Do this twice a day and see how quickly you get stronger and more independent.
Sue...good luck

Girl I Know exactly how you feel..but the truth is you just have to wait for that one guy that truly appreciates you for who you are..not on whats on the outside but inside..cause believe it or not thats what counts. Sure make yourself look gorgeous you have that right, do your hair, your make-up and look fabulous. BUT, have a great personality as well. Be smart! You Have to know what most guys are all about and you have to know what guys are like that. iHope you can see my point..good luck!