Advice if I'm 14 and pregnant?

Ok im going to say the whole story. Im only 14 bout to turn 15 and I might be pregnant me and my boy-friend been together 1 year and 4 months. And we have been having sex. And he might go to jail so he said I just wanted to c*m in you so I know you wont cheat on me if I go to jail.and I started crying and said but im only 14. And then I started to think about it I know I made a big mistake but I have to deal wit and I lokked up advice on the internet and it knd of helps. But im really scared to tell my parents b-because there a lil mean + scrict. But will any plzz help and give me good advice about my parents and my boy-friend.

When did this happen? It may still be time to get the morning after pill from your Pharmacist if it was less than 3 days ago.

Don't tell your parents until you know that you are for sure pregnant.
Your boyfriend doesn't sound like much of a man at all. What kind of guy cums in his girlfriend so she wont cheat on him when hes in jail? Sorry, but thats pathetic. You need to break things off with him, being involved with a criminal doesn't sound very promising. He obviously has some growing up to do. You should be on birth control AND using condoms.

First off look at yourself ...even if you got out of this and found out that you are not, your just going to get right back in the same stiuation again. Really dont think you have made great choices, why are you having sex at 14 anyway, you very well might have changed your life forever and I am talking about FOREVER! I had a child at 21 and that was hard, the guy you have been with for (1 year and 4months) ya...check it out...the truth going to be painful...but your about to become just another statistic, you need to make a change in your life now and be committed to the change...but here is the problem...and its the same for all in this boat,...your just to young to grasp the importance of this message and to understand the good advice you ask for...you think you going to find some answer to your problem on the internet in some chat site. you need to look deep inside and ask yourself, is am I going to continue down this path and if I do what is the most I can become, and dont just imagine where your going to be, go look, go to the welfare department, go to a young mothers support home, OPEN YOU EYES to what it is your going to become, you wont be any different then them if you dont do this. And DO NOT TAKE ANY CRAP ADVICE FROM PEOPLE YOUR AGE ask an adult. you made a stupid move, you need to be humble, you dont have to be stupid forever. and complete your education (and forget about your sex education) I KNOW YOU WONT DO ANY OF THIS that is why there are so many of YOU out there. and this is not coming from some chick that feels your pain, I am a guy and I am telling you the truth and thats the bottom line.

You need an advice???
You could avoid that couldn't you; only 14 and pregnant !!! why are you having sex at this age for ??? Trying to be more mature and look where you are ...
Sorry for criticizeing you but its really stupid to become pregnant at 14.
Tell your parents about it whatever their reaction will be... They will be bad surprised of what you did because you should talk to them before you start your sexual life ...

who ever reated my answer as a non helpful one is sooo wrong, shes just 14 ... omg 14 ... people you dont understand that she is too young and naive !!!

hahahahahahahahaha well I think she understands that she has done wrong otherwise she would not have asked for advice she did say she is scared andyzro so give he girl a break

TELL YOUR PARENTS...its the right thing to do and if they love you they will help you through this tough time..but never forget that it was the wrong thing to do

God these people p*ss me off !!! lol just because you're 14 doesn't mean you've ruined your life !!! I had mine @ 17 && my life is JUST FINE .. friends are still there && I stayed in school && HONESTLY it's NOT hard if you're ready for it girl ! (= Keep your head up && don't worry all these ignorant people ..they have NO CLUE what it's like unless they've been there ! EVERYONE makes mistakes. some just at different points in their lives! So don't even worry about it, really. && I'm here if ya need someone to talk to whos gone through the same thing !

I don't know what to tell you I am going through the same thing right now and I dont know what to do! only that my boyfriend isnt in jail, and it just happened.by da way im 14 too.I don't know.but my parentz are mean and strict to.so I know how you probably feel.I don't know.but im very scared!

hey go to planned parent hood and thats not is hard as I have I just turned 14 me and my ex had sex he didnt mean to get me pregnant and once I told him left so go to planned parent hood tell them your age and then they will say do you want to keep it or get and abortion and then they will ask you if you do your parents no and if you say no and please dont tell them they wont so I hope you have some luck

dam girl that's sad hopefully everything turns ok but what I don't get is how do you have sex if your boyfriends and jail???

WoW...as long as you really know for sure your pregnant tell your parents. my parents are the same. when you tell them semm very sry & very upset about it. as for your boyfriend he should just trust you &not make you face something like this bkuz of what he thinks. hope this helped. you can write back if you have any ?'s

It's always best to speak to an adult, maybe you could speak to a close
family friend.
someone who is close to your parents and they could help you with the news.
however you do know there is FREE CONDOMS all over the world.
try to be aware of all the choice they have made possible for teens.