Plese! asnwer as much as you can

I;m dead sirius I have went everywere and to everything so I can get advice but it just never works out.
I'm 14 and I'm just in need of someone so bad! I live in a household that perents just don't lpve rachother but they can;t get in a divorse or...

anathing because they will take my brother away, human services believe that my mom takes care of my brother who is living on meshines but she dose't I do. My dad dosen't let me out of the house because he sais he dosent want me to be stupid. I cant have aboy to talk to or tex me and he sais that if I do he's switching mw schools. He hits me when ever I disagree whit him and everytime it's something hevier, he dosent believe in councelors and sais that I need to suck it up and move on. I have to clean, cook, and my brother is something I have to do or my dad sais he is getting rid of him.
If I refuse to take care of him he makes me spend the night taking care of him, because he also need care, and poor me if I say no. He sais I'm not soppost to have friends and that I need to stay alone, fights happen everyday whit him and my mom and they hit eachother and all and the next second they are talking like nothing happened, my mom calls me tons of names that hurt me deep inside and my dad just lets her! I can never trust them to talk because if I say how I feel I get yelled at and my dad hits me!!
I've had it whit everything. I need somebody! I want to know that I;m not alone, I need a hug, inside I feel that I'm empty, I need somebody to hold me thight and hold me ti'll ihave cried it all out and they are not bored whitme!
Plese help me and give the best advice possible!
Thanks

this makes me sad. I thought MY problems were bad..not even. u.r parents are abusive to you in their own special way. you are taking on too much responsibility to be as young as you are, and I feel for you because you are SUPPOSED to be able to be guy-crazy and go out and have fun lol. . hunn, things will surely get better in time. I don't know your beliefs as far as religion goes, but if you are anything like me I would tell you to pray to God. he loves you and he lets you know EVERYDAY that you are NOT alone. juss listen to Him . I wish you were older than that so I could say that you'll be out of the house and on your own in no time, but unfortunately, it's gonna take a while. juss..LIVE the best way you can. have fun at school and cherish the times you have outside the home. matter of fact, you should take the time you have at school to TALK TO YOUR COUNSELOR. that's what they're there for. if you are scared to talk to your parents, talk to him/her. she can do SOMETHING. these are the days that can make a difference in your future depending on how well you do in school, and if problems at home are distracting you, you can't do your best. I reallly do hope I helped, but this is all the advice I can offer you..since I'm not psychologist lol. realize the bright side of things, BE STRONG, and figure out what's in your power to change the dark side. you'll be ok hunn

Wow. Umm, I'm pretty sure this qualifies a child abuse. You should talk to a guidance counselor at your school. Having child services take you and your bro away may seem bad now, but in the long run it will be better if you are removed from this enviroment, along with your bro. Just stay strong, whatever happens. Having the courage to speak up and admit that your family is like this on this website is a good first step, but you need to tell someone, like a guidance counselor, or if all else fails, the police. I wish I could help more!!!

I grew up in a household where I was the oldest of four. My dad got hurt and is disabled, so my mom started working. That left me cooking cleaning doing all the house work and I was raising a brother 3 years younger than me a sister 8 years younger than me and a brother 10 years younger than me. When my sister was born I was 8 and when my baby brother was born, I was 10. At ten years old I was cleanin house cooking dinner potty training my sister raising my brother doing my school work and helping him with his and on top of that raising a new baby. I talked to a school counselor about part of my problem, s but I started putting my feelings into poetry, that way they wouldnt be in my head. Its hard to have to grow up and be the adult, cause parents dont listen and it sounds like yours dont care at all. You can try to open their eyes to whats going on but mostlikely that wont work. I didnt have time for friends I was raising a family I didnt go any where cause I couldnt. You just have to find a way to get your feelings out of your head and express them to your parents. And if this doesnt help let me know and I may know someone who can help you. Hope this helps

If you are truly unhappy, contact social services, because you seem to have a sweet sensitive nature and you dont deserve to be brought up in such misery.

I wish the best for you, don't worry...years from now you will be on your own, making your own decisions, fulfilling your own happiness.

God bless you...really...

Just remember you they cnt take away your pride or your dignity,
IF you are not aloud to see a counciler mabe tr a school one and keep it a secret.
I feel for you, your only a kid you should be having fun not a hurtfful time.
I am not sure if you believe in religions or so ever but pray to God or your gaurdian
angel I know they will help you through tough times. and if you ever need some one to
talk to and not get bored I am more then happ to listen and help as much as I can kido
xox
Tristan