Should I wear a bra with pads in it?

I dunno if I should were a bra with pads in it. I was told I should, if I don't my belly is fater then breasts, which I don't really have any. I am very skinny, and turning 14. People make fun of me and call me anerxite. But if I do were padded brass, I feel like people can tell, and if anyone I know ever found out I would be so imbarressed!!! any advice???

I say find a bra with just a little bit of padding. Just enough to give your figure some shape. Don't over do it...of course with your slim build that would look ridiculous. Try one on before you buy it, make sure to wear your favorite shirt to the mall so you can get the whole picture and if it looks good and makes you feel good...damn girl!!! BUY IT!!

well if people make fun of you u should up anarexia and tell them it is a very serious problem and is nothing to laugh about. Stressing over things like being to skinny or people making fun of you can cause you to lose weight or stop eating so keep eating no matter what. If you really need to were a padded bra were one but get the bras with no underwire that way it apears that your just wereing a sports bra not a padded one.
Keep eating.
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Don't pad your bra, that's false-advertising. Depending on how old you are, they'll probably grown in eventually...

I agree, get something lightly padded, I.e. it should be thicker that the normal bra but still flexible (it shouldn't feel like shoulder pads in your moms blazer if you know what I mean).

And go shopping till you find something which looks nice.

And also try wearing clothes that suit smaller breasts. Halternecks and tops that make a straight line instead of round or sweetheart looks nice. Go check in the shops what works for you.

13-14-15 years old is a phase when your body sometimes looks a bit akward, we all went through it - it will blow over And don't stress, they will get bigger in time! Those people teazing you are just stupid.

thanx for the advice, it really helped

I know ill sound like a know it all but usually when your about 14 or 15 you are really concerned about what people think about you. dont let that change you. its sounds corny but be your self and you will get real friends. dont do something just to look better.

thnx sooo much for the advice. It is soo hard to talk to moms about this kinda stuff. = 3

thnx sooo much for the advice. It is soo hard to talk to moms about this kinda stuff. = 3

I wore padded bras until my boobs finally stopped growing and at your age they still have a ways to go. in the mean time buy urself a slightly padded bra. demi cut bras are also great if your wearing a sorta low cut shirt bc they give you sorta clevage. dont forget to lift urself into them too. like cup your hand under your boob and lift them in. it makes a big difference trust me.
also horizontal stripes along your chest help give to illusion of a bigger chest. so try on some shirts as well as a new bra
hope that helps

I like Leila's advice about wearing clothes that suit smaller breasts, and musicanddance's advice about demi cut bras and horizontal stripes.

Remember that boys your age are not very mature, and get all excited about girls that have larger breasts because they have never seen any.

My wife is a 34AA and I love her small boobs... Small Boobs Rock!!! I was able to get that point across to her in one session, and I have helped her to not wear a bra very often by getting her snug fitting tank tops that are ribbed or have designs on them. She often wears them underneath an open blouse. She used to wear a lightly padded bra, and still will wear in underneath certain fashions that require more of a top shape. I happen to like the flat look.

Today's fashions for girls are designed to accentuate a larger bosom. Buck the trend, and wear things that accentuate your figure!

it's a difference between stuffing your bra and just weaing a padded bra I think you should wear a paded bra to hold up your breast and make them sit up so the wont look all sloopy

thank for the advice!!!