Pleasuring my girlfriend

Well, I've got the making out down. But now arrives a new problem. One night things were going really good and we really got into it. I started to rub the inside of her thigh and all, and she seemed OK with it. So I continued, a little while later she kind of 'jumped' and then turned over, I assumed everything had gone according to plan. The next weekend, feeling confident, I went at it again, same thing, but I couldn't really tell if I was doing it right or even if my hand was in the right spot. She was wearing jeans, hard to tell, so I tried to get under them, just to see if I could find my way around a little better. She like completely flipped out, with her body that is. I just don't know what to do. Basically what I want to know is, how do I pleasure my girlfriend? And sorry for this being so long.

I also meant to ask, how would I go about, getting pleasured by her? Cause ya know, I wouldn't mind a handjob in return for all this...

are you the first guy to touch her? because she might just be to excited over being touched there and her body doesn't know how to react to it yet.. other then that, I'm not sure.. and for as for you getting pleasure in return, I'd talk to her about it, because you can't force her, but if she is up to it then I am sure she will. =)

Yes, as far as I know I am the first one to touch her. I don't know, I guess I'm just going to let it all play out and see what happens. Thanks.

ok heres my adice a lil late im shure but still
um......ask her to wear a skirt
or a dress
or when shes wearin jeans pull them down
try using either your or her saliva as a lube
and dont try to inser your finger into her clit
if you want you can rub it
or even ask her to mas*erba*e in front of you so you can get an idea of what she likes

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