Pleasuring a girl

my girlfriend wants to save sex till marrage but we do pretty much everything else. but I want to make her orgasm by fingureing her are there any certain ways or tricks that can help me

yes, start out slow.....we really injoy that........get faster.....and then faster, but remember.......2 fast pains

U shouldn't try any tricks u should respect what she say. Myabe later on down the line she'll come around. Never rush it might be worth waiting on.

Thats hard to answer because every woman is different. Some can orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone and others vaginal stimulation alone. And still others need both.

Try different things and tell her to tell you what feels good.

Ok dude I dont know why but I hav e alwasy had a nack for this and you should def do as Ska*ter_lOver says and start slow and get faster.... I wont go into detail on this place since little kids can get to it but anyways best way after you get mroe into it is the fingure and thumb method. I mean you have whatever number of fingures in her working in and out while you use your thumb on her clit. That way which ever kindof girl you have she should get pleasure from you. When you hit a good pace tha tyou can tell she is getting a lot of pleasure from stick with it. You may have to move your fingures around some to find her hot spots but after that just keep working them but remeber since you seem new to it to not go to hard with it because that just will hurt her and bam all work you put into it will be done..you can work her back up but still girls can drop off from on orgasm in a matter of seconds if you screw up. Anyways good luck wiht it and hope you get her off. Always remember that sex is about the girl. If you get her off at least two to three times before you get off she will love ya for it.

Okay well i totally agree with sikashimmer, all girls are different. But it actually feels good for the girl if you're gentle and slow first, becuase it just makes her want more and want to see what else you can bring to the table. basically, you'll probably need to find her spot by moving you're fingers in different places while you go in and out. Once you find it try and keep it there and always ask her what feels good and what doesn't, then you should be good =]