Am I gay or just freaking out?

Look, I'm 17, pretty average guy, but I've always had a problem in my life with girls, not the attraction but the part about doing anything with them. I'm no fool and I've done stuff with girls and I get turned on by them but I never go outta my way to do anything with them. And I totally don't like when they try to throw themselves on me. Tho, I feel strangely attracted to some dudes and I sometimes pay more attention to them than all the girls. I'm always comparing but to a point where it does feel pretty gay, but I'm compare outta jealously. Although I do not see myself doing anything with them. I'm also a virgin tho and my friend said I would know if I were gay or not if I did it. But I have got BJ's before and they have all been disappointing. So can someone help me out and say if I'm gay, borderline gay, metrosexual, straight and confused, or straight and shy. Any advice would be good because I just went home from a party because I was tripping big time because I was totally not feeling it dancing with the girls and I was looking at 2 dudes way too much.

You are confused...you need to experiment and work out what works for you. Be with girls and guys and see which makes you happier thats the only way you are going to work it out. Its ok and there is nothng wrong with being confused, now you need to spend some time working out what makes you happy, being with a girl, or guy.

u could be bi