Why don't i feel pleasure during sex?

I can't feel sex. I can physically feel my boyfriend... just not the pleasure that is supposed to happen. He's the first guy I've slept with, and I won't sleep with someone else to know that something is wrong with me. The only thing I haven't done is...

using a you-know, and seeing a you-know-who! Please someone have an answer, I'm getting desperate because he won't stay with someone who won't feel anything!

Your question is stated somewhat awkward. Don't quite get your you-know-who part. Some guys are oblivious on how to pleasure a woman. Have your boyfriend work the area at the top of your you-know-what, your CL!T. If you are sensing a numbness or something of that nature to any touch downstairs, then you may want to talk to your physician about it. But I think it's just a new feeling for you and your not yet adjusted to it. Get yourself a toy and experiment alone to find out what it is that you DO like, then share your moves or hot spots with your boyfriend. Good luck.

I meant a o.b.g.why.n. by a you-know-who in my statement just fyi I was probably just assuming people would get it sorry! I'm thinking about a toy... and we survive sexually on oral sex if he wants me to feel good, but I dont think he wants to do it forever! Thank you for the advice you guys, and keep it comin!!!

My gyno's answer was pretty much, I just don't. Some people don't and I happened to be one of them.

well if it makes you feel any better your not alone!! I couldnt feel anything and sometime it just plain hurt... me I just gave up and I clammed up I thought and still do think somethings wrong with me... me and my boyfriend were together for 1 year and 5 month were now not together.

dont give up and go see your doctor but so far what I learned that helps is
1. masturbation and toys
2. get to know yourself there sites saying what is down there and its function
3. kegel excercises help pelivic muscles and help with sex
4. you might need lots of clitoral stimulation
5. he might not be big enough
6. could be your head and your just not comfortable or ready yet
7. it gets better in time keep trying
8. go see doctor your not the only one, he or she can help and seriously sex is worth one measily trip to the doctor.

im not having sex, I havent found the right man and I know thats why it didnt work for me im 17 and I just wasnt ready and im not willing to masturbate, so when I do feel ready im going to the doctors or brook.

good luck darlin and dont get stressed out your not alone and your not a freak/werid/abnormal/ugly or anything out your a lovely female be proud!