Please help really urgent.....!!

okay my ex told me that he still likes me and has feelings for me...and I feel the same way...but the problems are:1 he still dates the other girl...2: he told me he wants to be wit me and now he's talking about sex...I told him I'm not ready but he still doesn't get it...what should I do I mean he still calls me his baby but without words he told me we can be together if I have sex with him because that will make us closer...what should I do...I told him that if wants to be wit me then tell me know...he called and told me he doesn't know...so what should I do I know we still have feelings for each other but I just so confused...one min we're fine the next min we hate each other...so should I just tell him I don't won't to have sex but I do want to be wit him and see where it goes from there thnks in advance for the advice

It sounds to me like he's just looking to have sex with you, if he knows you still want him and he's demanding sex for there to be a relationship again he just wants to get with you, I'm sorry to say it but really that's all it sounds like, if he really cared about you he would respect your decision to not want to have sex, if he don't respect you he doesn't love you, that's all there really is to it....keep telling him no if that is how you feel and way to go to you for not giving in!

If your ex was really inlove with you, #1 He would not be dating someone else, #2 He wouldn't pressure you into having sex, #3 He would tell you that you are the one he loves and wants to be with. Sorry to say this but he seems to be manipulating you by saying nice things and then trying to convince you to have sex with him. He might like you but he sure isn't being a good friend nor boyfriend by playing with your feelings and telling lies to his current partner. This guy needs to clear up his act and decide what he really wants and stop playing games with you. Don't let him manipulate you into having sex just because you like him. Tell him how you feel but be firm and insist that if he really loves you then he will have to proove it and not just say empty words. Afterall, there are other guys out there that are willing to make you their queen and really care about you and your feelings.

sex might make you closermaybe but he ust might want you for the sex. I think thats what I was being used for I still might be but I love him and I keep doing it. and were back together but I have the feelin he doesnt truly want to be with me. you just tell him if he really wants to be with you then he have to wait if not then all he wants is sex. me and my guy fight a lot but its normal.

I just wanted to say thanks for the advice...and I'm going to talk to him and let him know exactly how I feel...and things don't work out right...oh well I got to live my life...thanks again...this really help me out a lot...