Please help me, im totaly messed up

this question I have shows how messed up I am. a few months ago I broke up with a girl I had lived for with like for almost 2 years. she just left me(in feb) from one day to the other, and moved in with the guy after knowing him for only 2 days. but thats not the worst of it. whats the worst of it is, someone who was always truly sweet to me who truly cared about me, and was being a real friend, my ex before that. she had told me she was always going to loveme as a friend and she truly did. however my girlfriend at that time told me to call her cuss her out and never talk to her again or she would break up with me. I loved and still love my ex so I did just that. then she called her and told stuff about me, and even recently when we had already split she called her and asked if we had been talking, and we were so she went as far as to make up sh*t abot me and now she (not my ex I left in feb) ignores me and totally hates me I think. but thats not all. my ex from feb totally ruined my relationships with my family, everything. I don't know what to do, I am thinking suicide is the only way out, I really am. that one ex who was a friend always helped me out but now dosent even want to talk to me, my family is faraway from me and I feel hopeless. how can I fix sh*t up?

I'm sorry, you sound like you are really hurting. I'm sure you know that suicide is never the answer; it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. So I hope you will either abandon the idea or get help; go to a doctor, emergency room, or counselor

I think your X from February sounds pretty vindictive. All the talk, talk, talk she's been doing. The thing is, time will show her for who she really is. Time will prove her words wrong. Time will show she's vindictive. Give yourself that time. And your old X will eventually see it. If family is far away, then make a family of friends. Lean on the good ones you have or find good ones. Find a support group or call a church pastor. Now is the time to be good to yourself, surround yourself with positive people and put one foot in front of the other.
I can't tell you your old X will come back. But I can tell you that she might, and if you commit suicide you won't be there to see it.
Act like the man the old X admires. Be that person. Eventually she'll see it. And by then you'll be stronger in yourself and more confident because you rode out this storm.

Let us know how you are doing from time to time.
Blessings and good luck.

(not my ex I left in feb) ignores me and totally hates me I think. but thats not all. my ex from feb totally ruined my relationships with my family, everything. I don't know what to do, I am thinking suicide is the only way out, I really am. that one ex who was a friend always helped me out but now dosent even want to talk to me, my family is faraway from me and I feel hopeless. how can I fix sh*t up?

Hey- sucide??? no way! There is seriously always another way- no need to sound like a counselor. Surely you own family will understand that your Ex was a total b*tch and that she made you feel so desperate for her that you would do anything. I am not shoo of you can fix stuff with your ex\friend... that is pretty bad- or so it sounds. any girl who would make you do that to your family and friends is not your type of girl I don't care who she is. You don't sound messed up but she sounds totally twisted. Drop the ex from hell and really try hard to talk to your real Exfriend. If your family won't forgive you- well that is the end of the rope. Talk to them tell them how she makes\made you feel. I sure hope that isn't what you are like under the influence of the ex from hell. hope I could help you with your sh*t!
Trish

sounds like you been on the wrong horse. you should of stuck with your good friend and ditch the golddigger. if she jumped on the next guy on 2 days, then she really doesn't care about you or him, you should try to make contact with your good friend and take her aside and have a serious talk with her, and tell her that you made a mistake by taking sides with the other girl, and that you really valued her friendship and you would do anything to repair it. women are suckers for slobbering romantic guys if you are lucky you can mend your friendship with her.

p.s. it sounds like a major ass kissing is in order with your family you forgot the major rule, blood is thicker than water, your family will be there forever and girlfriends come and go

heeeeellll no trust me mate suicide aint right one of ma mates tried it and it didnt work properly he ended up paralyzed for life so to hell with that I dont really know what you can do now but I recently did the same sorta thing and all ic an say is time heal's wounds and so do words of sorrow