How to tell my mom about how I was raped?

I was raped many times by my uncle. he hasnt done it in a while but the guilt is eating me up and I keep on blaming myself. everyone says that its not my falt and I need to tell someone but thats easier said than done. I really want to tell my mom but shes really sick and I dont want her be under any more stress. so I found someone else I can tell but its like ill have her sitting down and ill just break down crying and shell ask me whats wrong and I just cant find the words to say it in. also its like I really want to tell her because all the time I always be crying and I keep on blaming myself and I just really want to tell someone because I cant take the guilt anymore and eveyone says that hes depending on me to say quiet. but now I know its to late to have anything done and im that type of person that I would rather tell her over the phone or through an private im or something. but now its like the longer I wait the more depressed I get. please hepl because I really want to tell her because I hate bing depressed. also because when im really depressed ill just stay in the bed and cry all day and wont eat.

I'm so sorry to hear that...
Why not try writing her a letter telling her everything. And give it to her.
In it tell her what happened, how you feel, and stuff like that.
Write the letter and give it to her. Don't delay! Do it today!
Keep your head up. It's not your fault that happened. Tell your friend it might make you feel a whole lot better.

Oh my gosh, I can't express how sorry I am for you !
sillist1s has a good idea with writing a letter - then you could get all your emotions out, without rushing, or being unclear.

Your mom will not blame you, and she'll be upset(at your uncle and at your pain) but she will be relieved that you went and talked to her about it.

Imagine if you had a daughter, and she was raped, you'd want to know!

I know that she's sick, but you need to get this off your chest, as soon as possible.
I used to bottle up my problems, and although none of them were as bad as yours, telling my mom made it SO much better, we had a big discussion, and now I'm a lot better.

I really hope you're ok sweets !
x

I think you shld call the police & get away from him!!!

 
No matter what, it wasn't your fault and you should not feel guilty about it.

Whether or not you want him prosecuted, you should at least talk with a counselor or some other confidant like a priest or minister. You need to talk with someone who can help you work things out in your head so that you regain your self esteem.