Please help

Well l have been going out with my boyfiend for about 5 months now. l am a virgin and l have never sleep with anyone before so the problem is that he asks me to sleep with him for several times but l have refused so he told me that if you refuse to sleep with me l am going to look for another girl. l love my boyfiend very much and l know that he loves me too and l dont want to loose him, All l want to do is to wait until the right time comes and my mother always tell me that if your boyfriend always asks you to sleep with you then he dont love you all he wants is to use you and after he finish with he will dump you. so l dont want to end up like. Please help me. l am 18 years of age and he is 21 years

If he wants sex so bad, wants to be with you, and truely loves you, start bringing up marriage.If you act completely serious and tell him that he can be with you on your wedding night, you can see how he reacts. It might scare him off or he might like the Idea. You don't have to be ready to marry yet but you can kinda tell his commitment level then.

Choseing to lose you virginity is a big chioce If he respects you he will also respect your desion. Seeing that he has already threatened to see another girl, that should put up a red flag.

ok if he really loved you then he would not say you have to sleep with him or hes going to find another girl!!! if he really loved you sex would not matter!!! dont have sex with him if your not ready!!!! you need to tell him that your not ready and if he really loves you then he wont pressure you !!!!!

I agree with the other comments if he really loved you he wouldnt be pressuring you,I was in a situation like this before and in my case my and my then boyfriend sat down and I talked to him honestly telling him I loved him, that I wanted to lose my virginity to him but that I wasnt quite ready! I told him that he would have to wait or we didnt have a future at all. Your boyfriend has to decide whats more important the sex or you! if he chooses the sex you are better off without him! But that's what I would suggest talk to eachother properly and BE HONEST!