She isn't the same

Alright one of my best friends, who I like...gave some guy that she isn't going out wiht head ='(. And the best part is that he has a girlfriend. Shes my best friend but what she did hurt me so much!! I want to help her get through this, because a lot of people know, and I love her and I want to help her. On the other hand, I don't even want to talk to her becuase she promised me shed never do anything with that kid, and I thought we were goign to go out soon. I'm so hurt but I don't want to lose her as a friend. I want to talk to her, but I dont think she will talk to me now. Im SO CONFUSED, I can't even begin to explain. Its just no the girl I knew... And I'm afraid that she isn't goign to talk to me becuase I said something to her and then she said whatever bye, then stoped talkign to me. I'm sick to my stomach now and I want to throw up and im crying and ...please help...='( I really need an answer quick =S please and thank you...

Alright you need a quick hard fact truth to know about women...They are run on their emotions and that's why they say, "Yeah I shouldn't have done *** last night". This is one of those instances. He got in her head and played her very well. She is probably kicking herself a lot more than everyone else is and just needs some support to get this off her head for awhile. She probably feels as if her life is crashing down right now.

If you were a real friend you would support her. If you like her then you have to try to understand her and not judge her. There's no changing women. Yes it probably feels as if she has cheated on you, but she hasn't because there was nothing official. Just don't hold this over her head or in your pocket. Move on past this issue and apologize for anything hurtful you said and support her.

Thanks, that helped a lot