Please help me!

I'm 19 and I have been dating this girl for 2 1/2 years now in Dallas. We broke up 3 weeks ago and I moved back home to NYC thinking that she will miss me but I realized that was a stupid decision . Now I feel like I should've never left Dallas and I want her back. How can I get her back?

I want you to concentrate SOLEY on YOU for a moment...OK?
Forget about her and the relationship and answer yourself these questions WITH NO DENIAL....

Did you move to New York for reasons that would make you happier? If so concentrate on those reasons....concentrate on being excited over this part of your life. OR:

Did you move away as a plan to try and make your ex-girlfriend worry, thinking she would come running to you? All the while you never really wanted to leave Dallas simply because you like it there, the climate....weather...etc...? If this is true then you made a mistake....we all do it. This is how you know to go back BUT don't go back for her.
Go back for yourself and carry on for yourself. Understand this also....we (guys) really like to be
number one in our girlfriends/wifes life and so many times it just does'nt happen. I don't know why but guys especially (of all ages) struggle with this. Sometimes it can be a control thing, but a lot of times it's just how a human being (girlfriend/wife) is wired....Who you are and/or what you do is more expected than appreciated. Struggling and fighting with it can make you nuts because it is something you have no control over (Controlling it is not the answer either) If the girlfriend/wife has more fun with someone else accept it and start finding things YOU enjoy....WORK to find enjoyment in your life, through other relationships, hobbies, interests, etc,,,, that YOU enjoy. Hope this helps.
Familycoach

well that is a very hard question and sitution.
well first off do you love her?
then I will help you =]

well if she isnt making much of an effort to to fight for your relationship why are you? unless she is on the phone every 2 min begging to come back to try and make it work why bother? maybe you moving is best for both of you sounds like you need some alone time away from each other to work out what you truely want.

If your ex isn't acting like she wants you back then it wasn't meant to be. Its obvious that you will miss her but you will move on eventually. It would be best to spend time away from her and have some time to clear your mind and she will have this opportunity as well. Maybe in the future both of you will realize what you had and get back together. Only time will tell, but try to let her contact you, that way you know the feelings are genuine.