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Me and my guy have been married 5 years. I'm disabled and cant work so we have money problems . I have recently applied for dsablitie. I love him so much but not haveing enough money is hurting our relastionship we are fighting so much lately. I dont want to loose him over money I'm scared of all our debt and stuff like that please help . Someone ???

Every couple fights, and very often it is about money and spending habits. You should not let that damage your relationship, but sometimes it takes a lot of effort and it is hard to see the solution. There are many great books that give financial advice, and much more affordable than a financial advisor. What is really important is that you two talk to each other about money without getting so frustrated that it turns into a fight. Keep trying. Find the best time to talk about this, and promise each other not to get angry. You won't lose him over money alone; the burden that money brings can lead to other problems, like depression, but you have to show your love for each other in order to make things work. And that is free!

Thank you I am so frustrated . We owe the bank and are deeply into debt mabey fileing bank ruptcy would be the best rout for us to go I am not sure what to do. But it is takeing a toll on are sex life as well as love life and it is so hard thanks so much for answering.