Why can't he decide what he wants?

Hey so I have been going out with this guy for almost five months and then all of a sudden one night he breaks up with me. We went out I like 8th grade but he broke up with me and went out with one of my best friends so we grew distant for a while. Then we started talking again and come junior year we started going out again and things were great. He would always tell me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me forever and that we are going to be so happy together and how lucky he is to be with me....Then prom comes, which we were so excited about because its PROM! But at my friends house before prom I got sick and started throwing up and he went in there with me and everything....I still went to prom after but I just didnt feel that great....he then gets all mad that I got sick and how it ruined the night even though he knew I couldnt help it.....he says I am always sick (which is true because recently I had been sick for like 22 days) We grew distant for a little bit but hung out the friday after prom and he acted like everything was fine. But then he ignores me the rest of the weekend and I called him sunday night and he tells me that he needs to decide what he wants and breaks up with me.....I didnt even see it coming I was so devastated........but after a couple weeks he started coming around again saying that he wants to be with me but I don't know if he means it or not........in one night he said he wanted to be friends with benefits but when I wouldnt agree to it he said try us again and now I think we are back together but he is still saying he needs to decide what he wants!!! what do I do here I mean I want to be with him more than anything and I love him but what should I do???

seems like to me he really doesnt know what he wants and I believe you should just follow what your heart is telling you I know you love him and everything I have been in a similar situation but I believe you can do better I have and I believe you can to.. good luck tell me how it goes.

love always megan

You might love this guy very much. But never has a woman been able to force a man to love her.

Well, let's say he may have feelings for you but he is somewhat immature. His immaturity could hurt you depending on your patience and willingness to sacrifice for this kind of relationship. When will he be mature enough? Are you willing to wait?

Why should he be mad at you during the time you got sick? It should have been his opportunity to prove to you how he cared. But it is the other way around.

Anyway, there must be something good in him also that you haven't mentioned. Now, this really depends on you..........