Phone sex help

my name is dan Asked by dan41790 about 1 year ago, 7 answers.

Can anyone here tell me how to have phone sex. My boyfriend is really good at it but I just get nervous and I dont know what sounds hot and what doesnt.

Can I have some examples?
Thanks

Answered by bubbles_06 on Aug 12, 2008, 08:19PM

you should start but saying ...if I was there right now I would be.. and tell him what you would do to him.. I dont think phone sex is just an expression of lust, my ex boyfriend and I had to be apart for 4mths and we didnt get to see each other the whole time and phone sex was all that we had in that department, dont be embarrassed by it, if you loosen up you can have a lot of fun with it - if you're uncomfortable about the touching yourself part - dont and say you are wink

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Smexy? Answered by blooregardkazoo on Aug 12, 2008, 07:13PM
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Well I tried it once... or twice... or a lot. I was really nervous and Didn't want to do it... But he pressured me into doing it cause he wanted it. But if you don't feel comfortable doing it tell him he should understand.

I still have no idea what to do in phone sex...

before going out. Answered by layashea on Aug 12, 2008, 07:18PM
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I really don't know,
I feel awkward.
just say you dont want to.

haha-
really lame.
but one time, everything the guy saidd...
I'd just be like- I'd let you. lol

e.g -(him) then I'd start kissing you.
(me) I'd let you..
haha

Answered by angelfire2708 on Aug 12, 2008, 07:53PM
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Sorry, but phone sex is nothing but an expression of lust that has nothing at all to do with love, respect, care or commitment.

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Answered by annoyed2 on Nov 03, 2008, 04:27PM
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angelfire - phone sex can be more than just lust. Professional phone sex, yes, is just lust, but it can be more than that if it's between a couple.

It's a way of reaffirming your attraction, especially if you are in a situation where you cannot be together for a long time. Just as hugging, kissing, caressing, and making love with someone that you truly care about are all more than lust, so is this more technological version. It's about care, and comfort, and confirming that your love and attraction is still strong.

lolz. Answered by baileysmish on Oct 27, 2008, 08:42PM

detail is key.
you want to get into detail about -everything.-
tell the person(s) you are having phone sex with what you are wearing, doing, thinking, etc.
breathe heavy.
don't hold it in.
girls: high pitched moans are a good thing.
boys: get dirty.
the faster you come, the better it is for your partner.
they get off to you getting off.
thus; you get off together.
you want them to know how good it feels, how bad you want them, etc.
just...
don't hold back.
goodluck. happy

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 12, 2008, 10:06PM
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Well, I've had phone sex with strangers that weren't my boyfriends.
What you could say to to make him happy, Oh Yuah! when he starts feeling that urge to master bate. If you ddon't feel comfortable in having phone sex, don't do it.
For me, I was forced into it. I'm a 23 year old virgin that's real good at rolle playing. If your boyfriend forces you into having phone sex, use your imagination and think about if you were with him. I had to use my imagination while having phone sex with different men. Really phone sex isn't something to do everyday since its all lust. It isn't required for you to have it. So, I'm telling you from experience, that having phone sex isn't to good.
You need to tell your boyfriend, Please respect me If he doesn't like it, that's too bad. You shouldn't do it. Don't let him force you into having phone sex. If you don't feel comfortable touching yourself, don't do that either. Men would say to me to strip off what I'm wearing before we started. If your boyfriend wants you to do that, fake it. Just say I've taken off my pants and underwear.
Usually when having phone sex, you tend to do allot of masterbating.
I hope you two don't do it. You need to tell him straight up no! I'm telling you, I've been there done it. One last thing, if your not good enough, you shouldn't take it personally.
Some men told me I was good at rolle playing. Some thought I wasn't. Please, I hope you take my advice and others on here.

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