People think im slutty...

Hey , someone help. I know that slut is just a word. but people are saying I am one , when I haven't even had sex? Im still a vigin, and no need to rush right? Well, just that I've had many boyfriends and gone pretty far, doesnt mean im a slut. I act...

flirty and I flirt with guys that DO have girlfriends. . Please give me advice on what to tell these people..and what I should do..

Okay- judging by your other questions, I wouldn't be surprised if people called you that. I mean, you don't like being in a relationship, because you like to partake in sexual activity with multiple partners, and you want your friend and her boyfriend to break up so you can have another person to 'do stuff' with. I can't say I'd think terribly highly of any of my friends behaving like that- it's totally trashy, and shows a lack of both self-respect and self-control.

Captainassassin is right- you don't seem to have any shame or regret over your behaviour, you just don't like being labelled a slut. If you don't want to be called a slut, stop acting like one.

Um..havign sex doesn't mean your not a slut...and FLIRTING WITH OTHER girls GUYZ IS NOT COOL!!! Just tone it down abit...

ya its not right to flirt with other gilrs guys...that comes of as your trying to steal him away...its ok to flirt but not with taken guys

I've flirted with guys that have girlfriends, I don't think it's abig deal.
Just if people say it, let them.
They're just saying that to make themselves feel good.

Um , excuse me.. but I don't think it's bad.. To like flirt with other girls boyfriends, it may be disrespectful. but I mean.. like. im still respecting the girl, just not when she's around. lawl, sorry but that's the way I am ,

Not having sex and being called a slut=NOT SLUT

Going Far(depends how far?)=NOT SLUT they are your boyfriend after all aren't they?

I act flirty and I flirt with guys that DO have girlfriends= ULTIMATE SLUT and we have a winner!

By definition, you DO NOT have to have intercourse to be a slut.

SLUT (n.)

1. a dirty, slovenly woman.
2. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.
3. a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
4. a woman prostitute.

PROMISCUOUS (adj.)

1. characterized by or involving indiscriminate mingling or association, esp. having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.

I don't get it what do you call the guys then?
AS*SHOLES...

Why put so much restriction on the woman.It's take two too tango.

***I don't get it what do you call the guys then?***

Players. We've already been over this.

***Why put so much restriction on the woman.It's take two too tango.***

If you're wondering why the female term seems more derogatory than the male one. Its because the English language was documented by male-dominant MEN, in a male-dominant society.

So was the Bible... ever noticed?

*frowning*...not good...not good at all...

New Female Version (NFV) of the bible...JOKES...JOKING!I was kidding...hehe

Excuse me...you don't get to tell me what to say...If you don't want to hear other peple's opinion I suggest you don't ask in the first place...

It might seem mean what I say but believe it or not I am really looking out for your best interest..if I didn't care about you I'd say whatever yeah do what you want...The problem is I DO CARE ABOUT YOU...you don't understand it now but maybe when your a bit older you'll understand.

um Marianna? I'm asking questions for real serouis answers. I don't really like it when I get dissed by them. so stop being so b*itchy, you don't know me , and if you're not going to say something nice don't say it at all.. you HAVE NO F*UCKING IDEA, Repeat- NO F*UCKING IDEA , what I AM LIKE, IN REAL LIFE. So , stop being THE B*ITCH you ARE and shut the F*UCK up.

btw, in real life.: I`m nice to girls... I always have been , I'm preppy and happy all the time. but when im with guys I love iiit. it's more than what you know because I looked at your profile and you are very ugly.. sorry ,. but , your boobless and have no body, ew. if I was a guy id hate to screw you.. ugly H*ore. :@ so , F*UCK OFF.; ...

love the b*itch I am. :D xo.

***I'm asking questions for real serouis answers. I don't really like it when I get dissed by them.***

You have been given serious answers. Just because you don't LIKE them, doesn't mean they're not serious.

***you HAVE NO F*UCKING IDEA, Repeat- NO F*UCKING IDEA , what I AM LIKE, IN REAL LIFE.***

Sure we do. You've already admitted to being a b*itch (your words), and you've admitted to being a slut around guys. You've expressed no remorse or shame for this behavior. It would seem you like BEING a slut, but you don't like being CALLED a slut. Well DEAL with it...

...if the shoe fits... wear it...

***and if you're not going to say something nice don't say it at all..***

If you can't handle criticism (especially involving an issue where you're so obviously in the wrong) ...then DON'T ASK FOR ADVICE.