People live to regret

This is not an advice thing, but it is sort of an open discussion of different memories and regrets. I want to tell a story that I want to let go of once and for all. I regret fighting with my best friend over a girl. Which originally he was going out...

with her and I was... like a fuc*ing idiot, the third wheel. Though they went out they never acted like a couple. So I talked to her for him because he didn't have computer and she was in my class. With that in mind I got to know her and eventually started liking her. What led it deeper was that I found out my best friend two faced me and it sucked. So we eventually argued and I couldn't possibly date my best friends girl. So I let it go. So in any case I stopped talking to him AND her for a while and it led into about 2 years. I've been regretting this and been sort of depressed. But now im ready to let it go... cause honestly I've had enough regretting. and I got to let it go and finally I grew the balls to. So it feels great to do so... anybody got something they regret? P E A C E!

I have a question for you. If you had dated a girl and then you broke up but then kinda made out with her best friend would you tell your ex that? Because there is this guy who did that to me and I just dont understand why he told me and it has been like 4 months. He said it was because I needed to know. He also said he doesnt want to lose me and that his feelings for me have grown over the months. So what do you think?

Uh huh... yes indeed it was very wrong, but you have the right to know and he probably felt as if he needed to tell you because he didn't want to hide anything from you. To me personally that is a good trait from a guy, and he might have kissed your bestie in spite of being heartbroken with confused feelings because you broke up with him. So I think you should give him another chance if you have any feelings for him. He told you the truth despite the fact that it couldve made your relationship worse. Though you may have been disgusted with the fact that he did that he sounds like a trustworthy person. If you still have feelings for him then theres no harm in giving him another shot right?

I do.

I was either 13, almost 14, or just turned 14.
but my grandfather was in the hospital.
he had COPD, black lung, and was very sick.
but he'd had it forever, and I figured it was just another spell-
he'd be fine. MY grandpa couldn't die (he was more like the dad I never really had)

so I had a stupid little relationship..
and I had my mom take me from the hospital- to the ball field to see my little boyfriend.
2 days later he died.
I could have been spending those last days with him..
but I was too caught up with what I wanted to do.
that's my one and only regret.
and I'd go back in a second and take it back.

dont regret anything. you've learned something from it, I've made a lot of messed up choices and I've done things I should burn for, but I learned from it and regretting it is useless. regrets just weigh you down and cage you up, let it go move on and make sure not to make that mistake again.

Well I'm sorry for your loss and regret layashea. But you know what I've realized? That it takes a lot of fuc*ing guts do be able to let go of something like that. I mean my best friend was like a brother to me, losing him is like layashe with her grandfather. Yeah I know letting go is SSSOOO easy to SAY! But it takes time, and a lot of real self actualization (sorry if that's not a real word lol) anyway, it takes me two years to absorb in the fact that it was over.

I didn't take my chance before to repair our friendship and now I suffer a loss. Yeah its so freaking easy and think to yourself, im going to let it go, time to face reality I know its done. But you want to know what happens if you hold on to something like that for too long? It stays on the back of your head eating away like drugs. Sorry if I'm being overdramatic lol but the truth in the truth. I guess I'll just have to find another best friend of 8 years cause I'm getting tired of sounding like a little bit*h. SHARE SHARE SHARE! P E A C E!

yeah,
I actually went to a psychologist..
I was never happy.
I still regret it.
but I realize my grandpa wouldn't want me to.
im a lot better about it now.

Anyone else???

Thanks I needed a guys opinion. That helps a lot but I am not the one who broke it off. But in a way it does make sense because his other girlfriend had broken up with him. so thanks for your help.

coolio! = p/ P E A C E!