People are so unpredictable

We had a family friend and our grandmother lives in lansing by him well ever since she moved out there she has been in the hospital we think he drugged her and the doctor took all the medicine she had away from her and now she is I a lot of pain we dont know how to deal with it because he also sold drugs to minors

Speak to the hospital about your concerns about your grandmother. Explain how she complains of pain and you suspect that someone you know may have taken the drugs and sold it to minors. Then ask if the hospital has services they can offer to get someone to take care of her or stop by at least once in a while to check up on her. Medicare insurance should pay for this kind of care. You need to at least voice your concerns to your family first. Good luck!

he was out of his meds so he stole hers and hes and actual drug head

if he has a real prob with drugs, then get him some help

HE DONT DESERCE HELP AND HE THINKS HE PERFECTLY FINE AND ON A DAILY BASIS HE GETS HIGH

Speak to the Police about this matter.

Yes I agree the police need to be told about this bacause some drugs that are perscription based are deadly in the wrong hands.

'HE DONT DESERCE HELP AND HE THINKS HE PERFECTLY FINE AND ON A DAILY BASIS HE GETS HIGH'
addiction is a disease that few people really understand. addicts suffer from a severe lack of coping skills. there is a distinct difference between an addict and non addict brain. have you ever seen the show 'intervention'. I have never met someone who liked themselves or the things they did when they were using. your family friend deserves a little compassion. walk a mile in his shoes... if nothing else, you'll be far away from him with a new pair of shoes (haha)

maybe if we turned welfare money into money to run free rehabs, we could clean up our streets

well he stole from a family member and we dont know what to do

addicts often do things they are not proud of to support their habit. I'm sure stealing wasn't his first choice on what to do, but he probably didn't feel he had any other option. if you want to save his life, gather a group of people that care about him, and confront him about his problem in loving manner. you can literally save this guy's life. he probably couldn't stop using if he wanted to. show him that he has a reason to start a new life. loving an addict is one of the hardest things some people ever do, but there is a good person in there. I'm sure there is a good heart underneath all that horrible behavior. I hope you and your family have it in you to help this poor guy.

here is a reliable site for you to learn about addiction.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/drug-addiction/DS00183

I have to agree they dont know what they are doing or whould I say that they think what they are doing is ok when they steal as long as they get a fix. he might think in his head that he would have paid it back eventually. You just dont know what goes on in an unstable mind.

WE DONT NEED TO SAVE HIS LIFE WE NEED TO SAVE OUR FAMILY MEMBERS LIFE

I beg you to try to remember a time in your life when you needed the compassion of others. take care of your own, by all means, but please don't be so rash when you decide to shut him out. as I said before, addiction is a disease. would you shun someone for having cancer? I'm not saying that what hedid was right. I am trying to help you understand that your malice towards him could be derailed, if you could see the world through his eyes for just a moment.