Parents=problem

My parents are always thinking im off having sex but im not what do you think I should do they also think im a lesbian because I dont like dressing girly as in no bright colors

Just let them no you feel more comfortable dressing the way you do. As for me im not a girly girly either and when I do dress like that I just feel uncomfortable so my parents are use to me by now.. I let my mom pick out some clothes for me sometimes but it have to be something she know I wil wear.. And if they keep bothering you about having sex just tell them to take you to get a check up so you can prove to them that you are not doing anything.. That will help them maybe trust you more as well. When they find out you are not I would ask them to apologize to me seriously.

I would get lots of pamphlets and literature about joining a convent.

Just keep it lying around, then have one of your friends call the house and leave a voicemail thanking you for your visit to the Sisters or Mercy convent.

Hopefully that will break the ice and you can tell them, again.
And also throw in that they raised a smart independent girl. with a little sense of humor. Parents are weird like that some times.

i’ll think of more advice for you later.