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Asked by lovemorhateme about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

My parents are divorced and my mom just moved back from another state and I love my parents to death, but I have a lot of anger towards both of them and I don't know how to let it go...

Answered by rola on Mar 13, 2008, 07:37PM

hello , well I guess its natural to feel this way about your parents but you have 2 know smething , im not asking from you to understand , cz that will come only with time , you just have to know that they have feelings like you do , and obviously they are happier apart thats why they took the divorce decision , they have also their own life each one , separated from their life with you but they still love you the same way , and you have 2 know that they deserve to be happy also like you do too , remember how much they suffered while they were together , everyone deserves a scnd chance and I believe that they gave you too many chances befor in everytime you screw up dont you think that its your turn now to give them this chance of happiness and confort , think about that and the anger will go away , just give urself time , dont rush , dont feel guilty your eventually humain , relax this is life ups and downs , good luck .

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 13, 2008, 07:40PM
53843 answers

well its understandable that your angry towards them my parents are divorced 2 but the best way 2 deal with it is 2 tlk 2 someone who can relate 2 u

Lillian Answered by lilix on Mar 13, 2008, 08:01PM
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well yeah thats definetly has to suck but I think with time everything will be just fine. just know that your parents didnt divorce because of you just problems they had or they fell out of love. YOur going to have a lot of anger towards the both of them because you love both of them. but you should be happy that you get to be with both of them grant you might not get to see one or the other everyday but it would be pointless having them get together and knowing its not going to work.,

Answered by amblessed on Mar 13, 2008, 09:39PM
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Just realize 'parents are people too' - have shortcomings/make mistakes - know what happened wasn't your fault - they're the only Mom and Dad you'll ever have - do your best to keep close for your sake and theirs - so just remember the Good things and be Happy...I wish you the best !!

~my sister and I (i'm on the right)~ Answered by smalls22 on Mar 14, 2008, 06:35AM
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my mom died two years ago and I'm having to deal with my dad and his girl friend. she has 5 kids... so I kinds know how you feel about the anger thing. I get thought it by trying to tell my dad how I feel. even if we get into a screaming match... it helps I guess. then you don't have it all bottled up. all he does is turn it around and make me look like the bad guy, and acts like I'm the one pushing him away. parents can be very selfish just like a child, but try to tell them what they are doing. good luck

Me and my man for almost 2 years Answered by brooklon on Mar 14, 2008, 08:18AM
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1st off do not hold all your feelings in please just believe me on this one I did and I ended up in a hospital because of my depression so please juss sit them down and talk to them tell them hoe you feel it mite fell werid but its for the better in the long run...hope I helped

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