Paranoid girlfriend and her sex drive

My girlfriend is really paranoid. I have quite a high sex drive but hers is non existant (unless shes had a drink). She says it's because she's paranoid about getting pregnant. Even the slightest bit of foreplay makes her think shes going to get pregnent. Even if she is in the mood, as soon as we start foreplay she suddenly goes off. What should I say to her to reassure her that it's ok. She says she's going on the pill soon, but until then its quite annoying. Also how can I reduce my sex drive, its too god damn high!

Make her feel secure and always use a condom, even after she goes on the pill. Put the condom on before you begin anything, as soon as you get hard, so she doesn't feel vulnerable during the foreplay (a lot of guys like playing around "bare" and only put the condom after the foreplay and right before they go for the real thing). I know it's a fuss, but just have it on all the time and she will be more relaxed. As about controlling your sex drive... well, mas*urbat*on usually helps and is the #1 replacement If you get your girlfriend comfortable though, she shoud be able to help you - I'm sure she wants it too, she's just scared.

First, I don't think you are respecting her feelings. If it is annoying that your girlfriend won't give it up to you then maybe you should find someone who will. As for her, she will probably be better off with a guy that will respect her and her body. Dude, you need to look deeper than your hormones you may be surprised as what you can find.

What you need to do is wait untill she gets on the pill. Respecting her feelings is the most important thing you should do. If she dont feel comfortable, then it shouldnt happen. If you really like her, wait until shes ready. Masterbation will help you get through this. Before you know it, shell be on the pill, until then, your hand is your best friend.

I used to say the same thing to my boyfriend. but I learn to live with the fact as long as he dont c*m in me im ok you know just make sure nothing happens use protection and make sure she takes the pill then maybe nothing can happen.