Why am i having pain after sex?

Asked by moody33 over 2 years ago, 6 answers.

me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times...we did it a couple of days ago and my vag*na was hurting after..I went pee and it kinda burned
my lips were swollen also! is it something serious?

fairy-crop Answered by satsumamoon on Sep 28, 2007, 03:49AM
211 answers

For the painfull peeing- you likely have cystitis, caused by unaccustomed irritation of the bladder (having lots of intercourse)- or by germs getting in. Sexual etiquette requires 2 recently washed partners and no back to fronting.(touching your anus and then your vagina)
Heres an article on self-treatment;
http://www.marilynglenville.com/general/cystitis.htm
For your redness;
You could just have thrush- which can be treated naturally, by applying yogurt to your vagina for 1-2 days.(on a tampon unless you are just too sore)
As well as redness, your natural juices will be thicker, more profuse and or display little white spots or lumps in them, if you have thrush.
However you do need to check that you dont have chlamydia, as left untreated can cause serious fertility problems. If you have this , then you must get treatment today/tomorrow from your doctor or sexual health clinic - usually specific antibiotics.
Chlamydia could be responsible for both the conditions you describe.
Its very usuall for people your age to be enjoying sex- so dont be worried about asking for help. No one is going to judge you, they will only be concerned with wanting you healthy and happy again:-) - and a little more educated :-)

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Answered by jashar on Sep 28, 2007, 02:52AM
16 answers

Is this the first time if so it will be a bit painful! Also a lot of women gt UTI's after sex that might be causing the pain while peeing. If this isn't the 1st time than you should go to a gynecologist to have yourself checked. Better Safe Than Sorry!

Also you are too young to be having sex but if you are make sure you are haveing safe sex.

nicola Answered by harley1375 on Sep 28, 2007, 05:39AM
617 answers

You have cystitis... old fashion name was 'honeymoon's disease'. Its where your bladder has been bruised during intercourse. You can buy over the counter stuff for cystitis but you could go see your doctor. Drink plenty of water to flush your bladder out, including a pint with some bicarbonate of soda in it to neutralise the acid in your urine. If it doesn't clear up then definately see your doctor. Did you use condoms? if you didn't then make sure you see someone to eliminate anything else.

Not really me Answered by sexy_slimaz on Sep 28, 2007, 03:02PM
76 answers

I think cystitis maybe, but my opinion varies if u had rough sex without a condom, if u did that could account for the pain u felt and the burning when peeing. During sexual intercourse without a condom, each partner receives little cuts and bruises to the genitalia (unavoidable) so maybe those little cuts account for the burning sensation an the tempo of sex for the pain, if u did use a condom that wud not account for the burning sensation unless u were allergic to the latex but I still think the tempo accounts for the pain. Especially if u were only recently sexually active

Answered by fireball on Mar 13, 2008, 05:58AM

it hurts the first time you have sex
so this is nothing to worry about

Answered by niceback on Feb 24, 2009, 07:53AM
3 answers

well it can be a mild yeast infection.. they dont itch when they are starting out... also it can be because you need more lubricant, and if the walls of your vag. hurts thats maybe because his pennis might be a bit big for you...but always check with a doctor you never know what it can be..

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