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yo, my name's harmony let's cut to it, what should I do about my...OVER PROTECTIVE BROTHER!!! he's crazy!! well,not kill kill crazy, but kill boy crazy it's bad enough I have five brother's who act like dad's but my oldest brother that im visiting right now wont let me move!! to this day he still thinks I visit boy's when I say im going to the library!! please tell me how I can get his DUMB ASS (thinks he knows it all,as if!!) to trust me.
I have an older brother that I visited this weekend. He is extremely over protective and the first night he would not let me out of his sight and made a big scene that it be known that I was his sister and approached every guy that tried to talk to me. The next day, I talked to a few of his friends and they in turn spoke to him. The next day, he was more lenient on me and allowed me some space. He didn't have his boys looking out for me anymore but trusted me to go out with one of his female friends. It wasn't complete freedom but it was extremely nice. I suggest you try talking to him about his protectiveness and explain why he should trust you. Everyone says it shows that they care and it's true... so tell him that you care about him too, but you need a chance to be free. If that doesn't work, casually bring up the topic around his friends. Good luck.
I have an older brother that I visited this weekend. He is extremely over protective and the first night he would not let me out of his sight and made a big scene that it be known that I was his sister and approached every guy that tried to talk to me. The next day, I talked to a few of his friends and they in turn spoke to him. The next day, he was more lenient on me and allowed me some space. He didn't have his boys looking out for me anymore but trusted me to go out with one of his female friends. It wasn't complete freedom but it was extremely nice. I suggest you try talking to him about his protectiveness and explain why he should trust you. Everyone says it shows that they care and it's true... so tell him that you care about him too, but you need a chance to be free. If that doesn't work, casually bring up the topic around his friends. Good luck.
This is probably not the answer you are looking for...but he only does it because he loves you...If he didn't care what happened to you, then he wouldn't be so concerned about you going places...I know I know...just because he's older doesn't mean he has to control everything, but instead of getting defensive and fighting back, just let him care about you. Build up a trust with him, so that when he does want to let you go out, then he won't be worried...Make sure you have his trust... If you want freedom, you have to act mature about it... Hope I helped
Unless you have a bad history with running around with boys like crazy and you are not to be trusted, he seems to have an unhealthy fixation on you. You said you are visiting him. So steer clear of him otherwise and be wise abuot the information that you share with him. I wouldn't tell him anything about anything whether it's good, bad, or especially ugly. He sounds dangerous. Yes, it's based in love, but this is rather unhealthy. Don't visit him in the future if you can help it.
You are lucky to have brothers that love you so much. Boys are protective of there sisters because they know what boys want - to get physical. Just let your brothers get to know the guys you like and when they get to know the boys you hang out with they will feel more comfortable letting you be with them.
I know how that feels I got 2 brothers but 1 of them is very protective but come on were the little sisters.they dont want and e thing bad 2 happin 4 us.one day were going 2 look back & thank them 4 being protective.Lol they do deserve a slap & a hug
I have 3 older bros and have a question posted thats like that but no one gives advice, they just say your luky they love u etc.! so if n e one gives harmony advice click on my q aswell!
Lol my brother isn't protective of me, infact he doesn't talk to me and we live in the same house xD...in fact none of my siblings are, lol.
got the same problem and because of it me and my brother have fist fight all the time
Slap him and tell him F U
