Should I break it off with my controlling boyfriend?

alright so I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now and well I guess ill just come right out and say it hes gotten well overbearing, our fights are nasty 2. Im not allowed to go to parties & when I do go out he calls my phone all night no joke and whenever I dont tell him what im doing he automatically thinks that its something bad and he threatens to go tell my parents im doing something like posting naked pictures online and I know they would believe him, he knows that to. Also when wer tlking and he doesnt get his way its automatic name calling like hey slut tlk 2 me or something. But then he goes and says he loves me and im the best thing to ever. So am I being over dramatic or is he being a jerk?

He is a jerk or just really immature. I don't know how old you guys are but he sounds like a 12 year old. He doesn't get his way and he immediately starts the name calling. Boyfriends and girlfriends alike should have a level of respect for each other and it seems like it's not there between you guys. He is not your father. If he doesn't trust you enough to not blow up your phone when your not together then he needs to re-evaluate why he is with you. You have to re-evaluate if your really happy with him too. Do you really appreciate being called all those names? Does the "I'm sorry baby, I just love you so much" really make up for it. Either he trusts you or he doesn't. If you want to give him a chance you can tell him how he makes you feel and let him know that if he can't be more trusting and respectful than the relationship has to end.

Heres my speech again>
"1 in 4 teens who have been in a serious relationship say their boyfriend or girlfriend has tried to prevent them from spending time with friends or family; the same number have been pressured to only spend time with their partner."

Extremely jealous boyfriends also tend to be very controlling and emotionally abusive. They want you all to themselves and they may even start trying to force you to cut back on the time you spend with friends and family members. They say they act this way because they "love you so much," when in fact the real reason they behave this way is to try to control your every move. They want you completely under their thumb. They may have deluded themselves into thinking that they love you, but what they are doing to you is not loving behavior.

I dated a guy when I was 17and18 (we lived together). He was a nice guy at first but then he turned wierd.He wouldnt let me see or talk to my friends and go to partys.As the relationship went on it got worse, he didnt want me talking to my family. He crashed my moms wedding because he didnt want me to go.He didnt want me to dance with my own brother or uncle.The more you let him get away with, the more controlling he will get.When I left him I had to put a peace bond on him because he followed me everywhere and broke into my apartment.Break it off it will only get worse.