Why don't I org**m during sex?

When I'm having sex I don't have orgasms and I don't know why or what's wrong with me. It just never happens. Why is this?

u might not get enough sexual excitement

Many women who have not yet had an org**m have the mistaken impression that they should relax and "just lay there." They've heard that relaxation during sex is important. But it turns out that muscle tension is very often necessary to have an org**m. So many women learn to have their first org**m by incorporating a fair amount of leg, abdominal and buttock tension. Sometimes even the muscles of the feet can be tensed in a productive way. And some women tense their upper body as well.

I read that up somewhere, I was curious also lol, see if thats the problem

I actually had that same problem for a while, until I too read that tightening up your muscles, especially your abdoman could help. for me I got on top, and when I got close I would tighten up those muscles and sorta grind. now it works every time I can have an org**m atleast two or three times. its wonderful