Oral sex - help asap!!

I love to please my man (esp oral sex) but when he does it to me its not as good.. I barely feel anything arousing, are there any subtle tips I could give him? or signs? how can I help to make it better? I feel bad for faking it but I don't want him to feel bad. please help!

You said you like to do it but didn't state wheather he did or didn't. Is he just returning the favor? Oral on a woman is definately an aquired taste. If it isn't his thing he is probably struggleing to please you. If he really loves it and just isn't any good. Then I sugest he really slow down and focus on what he is doing. Also a lot of girls really don't get comfortable enough to enjoy it. they are to self conscience. good luck.

Your partner will more than likely accept any suggestions you have to make your sex life better... Tell him you want to please him as well, and by having open and honest discussion about likes and dislikes, I'm sure you'll find you both can become closer and enjoy each other even more... My wife told me once when I was performing oral sex with her, to spell out the alphabet with my tongue, and as little of a request as that was, it helped greatly!! I started writing love notes to her with my tongue, and even though she never knew what I was writing, she certainly was aroused and enjoyed every little word I had for her!! Try stretching out the foreplay time... That will help both of you to raise enjoyment and your anticipation levels.. I always found her oral sex on me was more enjoyable when she would have more saliva in her mouth, and it was more "wet" than "dry"... It absolutely helps... Oral sex can be fun, and when you can discuss your feelings and what you like, it just makes everything better all around... Good luck to you!!

Do you really love this guy? do you want to be with him? I had the same problem with one of my boyfriend's. he tried to go down on me but it didnt feel good at all. now I am in a wonderful relationship. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. he has gone down on me and it has been wonderful. I couldnt hold still. make sure you r comfortable with him.

Do you really love this guy? do you want to be with him? I had the same problem with one of my boyfriend's. he tried to go down on me but it didnt feel good at all. now I am in a wonderful relationship. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. he has gone down on me and it has been wonderful. I couldnt hold still. make sure you r comfortable with him.

well I lost mine when I was 16, dunno if that helps but I wud of thought it was 15