Open relationship

Last night my fiance said he didnt want to be split upso he suggested an open relationship where we can talk to other people and I think its so stupid but he insist.. He says he doesnt wantto lose me completly..has any one ever had a realtionship

He is just making up an excuse. He is using you as a sidekick. He is going to talk to somebody else or either has been and then when she ends up leaving him or something goes wrong between them then he can run back to you. common sense.

I know thats what hes think becuase im doing the same thing im not happy but I don't want him with anyone else...selfish I know but I cant help after all we have been through I don't want to wake up one day thinkin I made a mistake by lettin him go...

An open relationship is NOT about talking to other people, its about being intimate with other people! He doesnt want to completely lose you, because he wants to fall back on you for sex every now & again. Dont be a fool. He only wants his cake and eat it too!

Accept his proposal. I think you can take more advantage of an open relationship than he can. Finally, it is not bad to try it.

Accepting an open relationship when you don't feel comfortable about it is not good news. He is imposing something on you without you getting anything out of it. Why should he be able to impose an open relationship when you want a "normal" relationship? I'm worried that this type of arrangement will leave you with a bad self-esteem, growing jealousy, sadness and feelings of rejection.

Also, what are the modalities and rules to this thing? Can he sleep with your best friend? Will he use condoms to protect himself and you from AIDS and other diseases? Where will he meet these people? Will he bring them home? Will you be able to digest a night at home alone while he goes out with other women? These are all REAL questions to ask yourself and him.

Well I tried to break up with him because my and an old boyfriend got back togther so basicallt I cheated but not purposly I tried to call it off but I didnt get a chance to talk to him..hes the one at home and im the out partying b..I know he cant go party because hes on probation and he has a curfew..so im the bad guy and hes the good guy and this open relationsship is him trying to find a way to keep us close