Open long distance relationship

Me & my boyfriend decided to have an open relationship (mostly my idea) were already in a long distance relationship. I though it would be a good idea to have an open relationship since were so far away from each other (hes in the uk also hes 17 & I'm in the usa also I'm 14) plus we will not be able to meet for 2 years if my mom lets me go to the uk then but if she doesn't we won't be able to meet for 4 years. So were in a open long distance relationship now. We've already found people we like (but no one compares to him) hes told me about these two girls he likes but I think hes trying to make me say I don't want a open relationship & trying to make me be jealous. I don't know I really love him & knowing he likes another girls kinda tares me up inside hes also the same way but he doesn't want to admit it every time we've talked about it he says "I just want you to be happy I'm fine with whatever you want to do I love you" I feel like I'm dating myself cause I'm always making the decisions in our relationship he also told me hes afraid to loose me cause he loves me I'm just mixed up inside & confused I guess

Do you think I've made the wrong decision or will this help our relationship some? I'm sorry this was long

How can you 'love' him? From what I read, you never even met the guy, LOL! So, how in the world could you be in love - at 14 years old, with some guy that is 3 years older than you, living in another country AND you are having this so called open relationship with him? That is NOT love... Sorry.

1. I have met him sorry I should have put that on there
2. I do love him
3. Were having a open relationship cause I though it would be better for us
4. Age doesn't matter
5. just because hes living in a different country doesn't change my feelings for him

OK< cool. You DID meet him. That is good to hear. But, on the second point? I'm sorry, but you won't know what real love is until you are older. I know, I know, that is NOT what you want to hear from anybody. But, it's so true. Right now, you are experiencing a sort of 'puppy' love for lack of a better term. I remember how easy it was for me to 'fall in love' when I was your age. And yeah, it really did feel like love, and NO one could tell me otherwise. You'll see what I mean - in due time. In the meantime, enjoy what you have. 3#) I have no problem with that. 4) You are right. Age doesn't matter. Unless of course the relationship goes a bit further than just being friends, oh , I mean - in love. If he turns 18 and comes into the US, and you are, say 15 by then, and you two fool around a bit...Well, if it goes far enough, he could be in some very serious trouble with the law. Just a point to consider. It is, however, reality..So, in this case, age may/may not matter. It depends. 3%0 Yes, maybe you are right. Nut, why not find a boyfriend that you can talk to,a and be with on a semi regular basis? Like a guy from school, or whatever? You say that you will meet in two years. Well, two people at your age do grow up, and change a LOT in a matter of two years. And it could very well be a case of you finally getting together with him only to discover that you are no longer interested. That could happen. Maybe it won't. I don't know. All I 'm saying is that maybe, just maybe it would be benefit you more to see if there is someone nearby to you that you might like well enough to date, and whatever. At your age, you are supposed to be out having fun. That includes dating guys your age, in your area. For most girls, it does anyway. I don't see what you can be getting out of the relationship with this guy, that's all. ANd I really don't need to know either. That is your business, not mine. Best wishes!!!