One more thing about getting my x back

do you think that time is of an essence as to the separation? I mean to say that would it be alright to want him back after five long months? with a foreknowledge that he doesnt have a girlfriend.

*what would you do? (as per a man's opinion) if your ex-girfriend left you, no communication whatsoever and after you got used to not having her around, she pops out from nowhere and you think she wants to 'renew the license'.*

whew

she'd better have a good reason/s as to why she left suddenly/no explaination/no consideration as to my feelings for her well-being.or my feelings in general....not knowing if she's ok or been hurt or worse....I may try again, may....but she'd have to earn my trust/respect again to the point I know she is absolutely reliable and this would NEVER be repeated....I don't beleive a well-adjusted person would just take-off like that in the first place....I would be very leery....renewing ANY license would be 'down the road'