On the edge about this situation

Okay im in this situation with this guy im sorta involved with since last year april. Um every since last year in like around the middle part of july its like he did a figure 8 on me. But now I know its the true him. And to be honest im a good girl and...

never did anything wrong to him and im the type ofgirl I dont fool around with other guys. Anyways um we consider ourselves boyfriend/girlfriend because we agree together that we is like talking on that level. But yes to be honest with ya and im being honest I care and loved him and I've being patience,nice (well I try to be a good girlfriend to him.) now and for a good while now it dont seem like we no boyfriend/girlfriend its odd now. He so up and down and whenever I do cal him he make up a excuse like hell call me and never call me back. He plays games big time. And whenever I do talk to him on the phone with him um I ask him is he okay and he snaps. Or I can ask him a question out of concern than he thinks im noisey. And im not a noisey girl. He has a lot of homeygirls.like the hoodrat type ghetto girls. And since we never really been out on a date, like spend time with each or get together type thing. I look forward to seeing him on sundays at church but I be like a little frustrated with him because I be tryna to get his attention and he halfs-ignores me. And he will rather go sit by his homegirls and laugh and act like his all lovey-dovey and into what they conversating about. Also he acts like he ashame of us because . Like for example I be like hey babe you are welcome to sit with me and my folks and he will have a fit and say no you stay over there with your folkz and I say why and he say something like no ya dont want to do that but he never really explain why and he always leaves me hangin. Also like for example when I try and talk to him in a nice way he say something like what in a sorta smart alick -way. And like if im standing on church grounds talking to him hell be so rude and disrepectful and call one of his homegirls over where we at and start talking to them and he walks away talking to his homeygirl and leave me standing there hangin. Also recently did something that push me over the edge and it was in church now. We had a gathering we are brothers and sisters in church so yes I was happy he stayed a little while for the gathering. Well I was tryna talk to him to let him know I didnt forget about us gettin together I didnt want him to know I was faking him out. And I notice he being had a new cell-number and do ya think I have it nope and he had this new cell number for a minute. Any other time hell give it to me. But he havent. So anyways I was going to ask him that .we had the church gathering I was going to ask for the cell number myself but its like he didnt give me that chance and we was in the center eating and its like he was in a terrible mood and he and his homeys kept laughing at me and everyone wasnt looking at me cause I was playing off an he was well I guess saying stuff about me or actin like he was talking about me . And everyone kept like looking over at him not me. So I didnt stay long I felt uncomfortable and nervous and uuneased and I left but a couple seconds later everything died down and I came back in there to say goodbye to my brother and sister in they started back up again and a lot of people was looking at them wondering what in the world going on. So I left out with the quickest. So I got in the truck and something told me to turn around and he burst the door open as if he was like was runnin after me after everything was over and done with. So now im so drained and stuck and hes about to lose me because he aint acting right. And he stead of leave me hangin. He dont do the little special things in our supposely relationship like for example: he never ever calls,didnt give me his cell,half-ignores me when he see each other in church,when a good girl like me try to explain how I feel he over talks me but he wants his ice-cream and cake and eat it to,he never says he miss or love me,he treats me like a dog,he mistreats me always,a couple of time he told me I was slow and stupid and he curses at me in a quick second. He holds grudges easily. This situation im in is unhealthy. Its like I dont know what to expect from him. Im tryna be a good girlfriend and its like hes not use to a good girl like me and its like hes stead of pushing me farther away from him as if he cant except the fact im stead of tryna be patience. Anyways id cried many days and nights tryna figure out what to do. So last sunday I took a break from church it was kinda a relieve. As if it was good for me because of what happen that following sunday at the gathering we had. So its like what to do? What should I say to him? How should I act towards him when im in church? I be tryna break the ice barrarel and talk to him but he actin an paying attention to everyone else which is cool with me. But if im standing right in front of him all his homegirls can come walking up and hell but hes arms around them and say something like oh this my homegirl. As if he tryna make me jealous or something. And we call ourselves together and he dont never hug or show an affection towards me. Back here id tried hugin him out of love and he act like he didnt want to hug as if he cant stand me. But hell be affectionate and put hes arm around his homegirls waist. He acts an pay attention to his homegirls than me. And he stays in they face to much and he does it right in front of my face to.and last year from april to in the middle part of july it was tight on a relationship level like boyfriend/girlfriend. And before I know it he did a figure 8 and true colors came out. And one time I thought we was good and I call to see when did he want to get together. I told im hey are ya okay and whats been going on with ya and he answer me back like the sky. And I say whats that suppose to mean to me and I told him what was wrong and he was snapy and edgy. Also now hes turnin me off and when he sees me sundays he act like he cant stand to see me. He dont pay me no attention anyways and I can see if I was that of girl to run around on him but im not I have done absoulutely anything to hurt or harm him nor say anything wrong to him. See thats the thing I dont understand him he got a good girlfriend but its like man is he to blind or hes just stubborn and dont want to accept that. Or maybe he cant handle a girlfriend like me. See like now he dont never call. And the only way he really ever pay me some attention unless most of his homeygirls aint there or if hes in a really good mood.and see know we havent gotten together all this time but I had thought maybe it was because of that but you will think he will be patient with me and respect me and when the times is right we will get together but I guess not. And to be honest my folkz be tryna talk to my boyfriend and be nice to him because they know we together but even he acts shady towards my folkz . My folkz be tryna see how is he and they try an talk to him but he acts with his noise up in the air and so my dont say or speak about him. Not to be rude but it hurts me because my folkz be tryna show him love and an he act funny towards him too. So what ya think about this situation? Whats your advice? What should I do with this situation?

this situation sounds pretty much finished, This guy is a pathetic excuse for a boyfriend, you need to get out of this unhealthy relationship, if he does not treat you well...leave him.
If you don't, you'll get more stressed, and he will keep on putting you down, this guy needs to be left behind, He's not right. If he insults you, he's not a man to date.

Find a better guy, who doesn't insult you, or acts like a complete jerk. There are plenty of other guys, so find the guy for you

Good luck!